What type of cancer did you have? if you dont want to share I understand.

 

Differentiated germ cell tumor, went through 4 cycles of chemo. Remission for a year so far

 

And on a funny note, ever since I made the breakup public, its been raining hos and tramps at my doorstep.

The most funny of them all is a joke... shes always hurt, always has a headache, always sick, always nasious, always tired, always has been driving all day etc.... Yet she wants me to make her the official GF?

 

Jeez, do I have to explain everything.

You can't be banging other bitches if you got one living there. Thanks to the internet, during last few years of bachelorhood I could zap as many 3 a week. Not to mention the fact that the overwhelming majority of women are needy, pains in ass.

You can generally put up with it when your in them balls deep, but when you're done with that and your trying to get some xbox on, the last thing you need to hear is her friends are coming over or wants to watch HGTV or whatever.


One of the most important things to look for in wife is she not a pain in the ass.

And really, no kidding, change your locks.

 

dam that was sad to hear about the cancer, if i was in your shoes i would of made the same choice and dump her. and that bulletproof song to me is one of the most annoying songs i ever heard in my life. i hate it that everywhere i go i end up hearing it.

 

Congrats! and hope the cancer stays gone! I dumped a selfish bitch ass ex last december. Best move I ever made. I have no idea how the hell i put up with that shit for even a year. You would not believe how happy I was after. Some of my employees thought I was on drugs or something.

My break-up themesong.[media]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2T6e_mk0O24 [/media]

 

Ya im sure that will be the case... I just dont understand how she could take endlessly then attack me so savagely to "show me".

Im just not gonna sit around and take that shit and passify her while I suffer and my needs are ignored day in and day out.

 

Here's what i would do.

1. She's keeping the ring becasue she knows you'll want it back. That's just an excuse to talk to you. Let her have it.

2. You won't be able to change your electric bill to your name until the other bill is paid off. Pay it off.

3. Change your locks

4. Rejoice that even after paying for all that other stuff, you just saved $10-20k in legal fees and won't have to give her half your stuff.

 

Sounds like you made right right choice.

I've always used one key test to determine if shes a keeper or not. Ask the next potential candidate if shes willing to iron your underwear. If she says yes, then you have a winner.

 

Congrats on your new lease on life.

Get your hump on man!

Also post pics. The backlot is waiting for the pics.

my sig is now officially waiting for these pics!