So when you start talking to a new girl, and it goes past the casual stuff and you realize this one isn't a temporary girl, and you start doing things like actually paying attention to what she says, planning things with her that you're actually ok with spending a lil bit of money that doesn't just involve other people and alcohol, your not talking to your temporary girls, and ya'll can actually chill out without big plans and such bc you actually want to see each other, do you ever get around to airing out a little bit of that dirty laundry? Are you the guy thats been able to keep everything on the DL bc your atleast somewhat choosey but you know you have some things that could or could not be said? Do you say them or forever hold your peace? I'm a nosey mother****er sometimes, and if a chick clams up on me about Anything she gets placed into the temporary category; I'm the type that really appreciates honesty. But, lately, I've realized I might need to reciprocate a little bit, only with the right person. opinions kids...

 

Things aren't black or white. Not on/off, temp/permanent.

I'd never trust a girl who immediately opened up 100%. I think, WTF is her damage that she feels compelled to blurt out to people she barely knows.

 

Keep it to yourself. I learned the hard way.

 

Everything tends to come out in time. Keywords being in time

 

Keep it to yourself...there are things my wife doesn't know about me, and we've been married for 28 years and together for 30.

 

DAD???!!!

 

I didn't read the whole original post but I think I've got the idea.

Always have a reserve of "stupid" secrets to tell her if she asks, like: "I was a Boy Scout" or something like that. Leave the "I had a three way with a hooker and a midget in Mexico during spring break" secret to yourself.

 

Oh man.. I will never forget that midget hooker.

 

[QUOTE=SIIK2NR,Jul 27 2007, 02:20 AM]Keep it to yourself.

 

definately do not open up to women, they dont forget anything and they find ways to use sh1t against you in arguments. Don't get conned into spilling your guts.