So no one airs any of their shit out huh! Interesting. ESPECIALLY the guy who's been married 28 years. Do you think you two really know each other? Do you particularly care if the girl you talk to has some shit that she's keeping from you? For me, if I ever smell a wiff of secrecy or hiding shit back, I put her in a different category and don't tell her the truth about much, and just treat her like a fling i guess, and am not particularly faithful or anything.

 

You really want to know about that gang bang she was part of 15 years earlier? Some things are best left alone.

By the way. You know you are really getting serious about a woman when you start choosing her non personal gifts based upon the knowledge that you are probably going to end up owning them. For instance, was buying the girlfriend (wife now) new cordless phones. I thought to myself "get the good ones dumb ass as there's a good chance you are going to own them." Thought the same thing when I bought her a tool kit for her house so I didn't have to fix shit with a butter knife and a shoe.

 

The past is the past, you're with the woman she is now, not the one she was then.

LOL and SheDrivesit's gifts... it's true.

 

also don't talk about your past Ex-Gfs or Bfs that shit is annoying as hell and it makes me think your dirty.

Everyone has done things they don't necessarily want other people to find out, right away anways, just gauge where you are in the relationship before you let those things fly.

I.E.

1 month, "back in middle school one day i came to class with my clothes on backwards like Kris Kross" haha


1 year, "One time in college i passed out drunk on the john naked" or maybe that's 2 yrs

 

"What happens in Vegas, stays in Vegas."

 

except herpes.

 

[QUOTE=db17k,Jul 27 2007, 02:42 PM] 1 year, "i passed out drunk on the john naked" or maybe that's 2 yrs

 

unfortuneately this is so true. it's just how we women are. maybe more gifts will be helpful? jk

 

don't you have to talk about ex's at one point or another? i mean you have to find out what worked and what didn't work, right? or no? haha

 

you could say "i don't like this from a partner" as opposed to "my ex bf used to do this all the time and it made me really angry when he did that and he did that a lot, so if you could not be like him that'd be great".

same goes for what you like