I'll keep it short I promise.

About a month ago I meet 2 girls and they invite me to a party. I went to the party and got to know both of them a bit more. I was not very interested in Girl #1 for 2 reasons, instead I was interested in Girl #2. Also met this guy at the party. He will tie into the story later.

1 week later I see the girls again. I find out that girl #2 has a boyfriend that is in Iraq. I also suspect that girl #1 is interested in me.

2 weeks later I see girl #1 again. There is no doubt in my mind that she is interested in me.

3 weeks later I hang out with girl#1 again. At this point, one of the reasons that I wasn't interested in her is not a reason anymore, and I am finding that I am ok with the second reason. However, I suspect that there may be something going on between her and the guy that I've met at the party.

This past weekend I get a chance to talk to the guy. He says that they've gone out a couple of times, but he's not very serious about her. He says that he wouldn't care if me and the girl went out on a date or two just to see where things go. Also, all 3 of us plus a few more people ended up partying Saturday night at her place. During the party, she was kind of acting weird. At one point, she was like "Look (my name), check out those flowers that (guy's name) bought me. Aren't they pretty?" I just said "sure".

If I'm going to do something, I need to do it soon, or otherwise I will blow my chance with the girl. At this point, I'm not sure whether or not she likes me, I can't tell anymore, but at one point she definetely did. Looking for serious advice, not PIIHB, or threesome.

 

i wouldn't invest in a retirement plan with chick #1. short term may bring you good times and good stories to tell when/if things go sour. play on!
girl #2 will either break up or cheat on her man serving overseas if she continues to hang out with girls/boys like #1, but it doesn't mean you have to be that guy (i say stay out of it and don't get caught with your hand in that cookie jar).

enjoy. thats pretty much it. enjoy!

 

Before I give advice, I need to know if the reason you weren't interested related to controllable STDs or not.

 

Well it's all very simple.

Girl 2 - Forget about it unless you want to be a short term thing. You could try and slip in a little lovin' while the boyfriend is gone, but thats a real dick move, plus you might have to deal with a pissed off military dude when he gets back.

Girl 1 - If she's interested in you just ask her out and see what happens. Don't feel like you need to buy her something for her to like you (I'll explain the flowers in the guy section). Anyways, it seems like your not really interested in this girl, you just feel like you have a chance to get in the pants and if that's the case don't spend a lot of money on her just hang out and have a good time (just remember not to get stuck in the friends zone, if it's booty/a casual relationship you want make sure you make that clear to her).

The Guy - The guy is in the same boat as you, he probably isn't into the girl other then the physical side. He just made the mistake of buying her flowers thinking that it would increase his chance for sex.





To wrap this up ( ) you should get a PIIHB threesome going with girls 1 and 2, while the guy watches from the window crying.

 

No STDs that I know of...

I'm pretty sure that I will see Girl #1 tomorrow night. If the right time comes, I'll ask her out for dinner.

 

Seems as if she likes to be surrounded by sharks. Probably to boost self esteem or something.
So just remember, nice guys finish last with those type of girls.

 

There goes my advice.

It's all just a game at this point. Feel her out, if she's a good girl, then have a relationship with her. If she seems like a cheating whore, PIIHB then move on.

 

Don't mess around with #2. Her man is trying to save your life.

 

i agree tremendously ^^^

also, in my personal experience, its almost too late but not quite, just ask her out or dont ask her out, theres only a small window if time until her interest will fade and you will forever be sucked into that "we could have had something but now im gettin it from some other chud and we are now just kinda friends" zone if you know what i mean.

make a move now or dont bother IMO

edit: this is age pending, im 20 and thats how it works for my age group, if youre older than that then it may be different...

 

Girl #1 is interested in you. She's trying to get your attention and make you jealous. This wreaks of high school. Good luck!