i actually will be going to a bachelor party this saturday, in chicago (i live here). i'll post back here or PM if we do anything of interest to give you some ideas. but yeah, you shouldn't have a problem having a good party in chicago. otherwise, i'd choose vegas.

 

...and i'll be planning my bro's b-party in 2008 when he finally get's hitched. his party probably won't have as much debauchery as the vegas trip im going on. but it will still be fvckin rowdy as long as i have soemthing to say about it

and there is no way my dad will be at my bros party

 

Ask what the groom wants, ask who the groom wants, make it great - plan ahead, get $$$ from people coming or not, and spend like a baller. Remember, its not your party, its the groom's party. Last thing you want to do is plan your dream and piss off the groom.