I think the whole "moral" issue is a load of crap... largely due to the fact that you are basing your values on the opinions of others in society... not based on any text through some higher being... and even if you are claiming a religion of some sort, it is most likely one or a group of people's interpretation of that text, of which the relevance can still be called into question.

Think for yourself, make the decision for yourself... there are arguments both ways... I don't believe that it's something that is healthy mentally or emotionally, and I believe it leads to other things.... however, the physical act of it I don't believe to be wrong.. something only holds so much value as you place on it yourself.

not sure if any of that made sense..

 

It didn't.

Just kiddin' ya.

 

I thought casual meant frequently?

" I casually like to watch movies."

Then I have been very immoral with my wife then.

Tan

 

LOL.

Casual means "without committment" or "in a non-serious manner" (among other things)....in which case, I hope that's not the case with you and your wife.

 

[QUOTE]Originally posted by JonBoy
From a Christian perspective, casual sex (ie, premarital sex) is wrong.

 

[QUOTE]Originally posted by THEOLDMAN
Having come of age in the "Free Sex" era of the late 60's and early 70's I found nothing wrong with it.

 

One of you will always eventually want more than just sex. It's usually her.

 

Nope its not wrong at all. BUT do not do it with anyone that youve either had a relationship with or had feeling for previously because it will just wind up sparking those old flames. Thats what happened to me and my man a few months ago. We thought we could just have those little "visits" and it wound up being sleepovers etc. Though we are better than ever now it definately made us realize what we where missing.

 

causal sex is never casual - either you have an ounce of feelings for her or she does, and that ounce usually grows uncontrollably as the frequency increases. when you realize you have a 200lb gorilla on your back (no pun intended), it's already too late

and the phrase "any sex is good sex"...well, that may be true for some people, but i wouldn't do it with a 200lb gorilla

 

great advice from all - it's nice to see the different sides to this -

frankly i believe my intentions were wrong yesterday - the old GF had feelings for me but i didn't for her so we ended the relationship - now the one who i really love moved 3655 miles away last month - i miss her dearly - hence my heart and head is with her (until i get over her) - but i still feel as if i am cheating if i go elsewhere (silly because it would take a miracle if she and i ever solve this distance thing and frankly i don't think she wants to solve it but move on and remain friends )