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View Poll Results: Is it morally wrong to knowingly hook up with someone who is in a relationship, that is be the other
Yes - you are participating in the act even if you aren't the one cheating
58.89%
No - cheating is only wrong for the person who is in the relationship, you're just in the right place at the right time
41.11%
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Old Jun 25, 2009 | 10:00 AM
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Like the poll says... you have the opportunity to hook up with someone who has a serious relationship of some sort, do you do it? If you do, should you feel bad about it? Would it matter to you who started things, initiated contact so to speak.. ?

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Old Jun 25, 2009 | 10:04 AM
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its not wrong. you just have to be able to live with the fact that some one out there might hate you and do some bad shit to you someday.
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Old Jun 25, 2009 | 10:04 AM
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I voted no, ONLY because the word "friends" did not arise in the poll.

If it was one of my friends girlfriends, I would NEVER even think about touching them. I don't even think about hitting my homies EX girlfriends.

Yeah, I know, i'm a prick, but honest
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Old Jun 25, 2009 | 10:08 AM
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You are not a cheater. Are you morally wrong? Well, if some guy hooked up with your wife and he knew she was married would you be mad at him?

If you answer yes to this then there's your answer.
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Old Jun 25, 2009 | 10:09 AM
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Originally Posted by s2000raj,Jun 25 2009, 12:08 PM
You are not a cheater. Are you morally wrong? Well, if some guy hooked up with your wife and he knew she was married would you be mad at him?

If you answer yes to this then there's your answer.
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Old Jun 25, 2009 | 10:22 AM
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fyi this is purely hypothetical...and for the record i voted yes.
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Old Jun 25, 2009 | 10:36 AM
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it's up to the person....some people have open relationships and do play well with others.... the situation in the relationship might be to where one of those in the relationship can't have sexual relations because of health issues or something else so they allow the other partner to be sexually fulfilled by hooking up with others.... just because you have sex with some one doesn't mean you love them... if you think sex is love then someones got it twisted...
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Old Jun 25, 2009 | 10:42 AM
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this is a touchy subject, i've cheated on my wife before we got married, a few times, i was stationed in germany and german girls are easy, couldn't help myself, anyway when we got married i told her everything, she forgave me but not after a big fight, it turns out she cheated on me too, and i knew the guy very well, and he was the last person i'd expect to do that to me, but it's a two way street, i forgave him, and were still friends but i threatened him within an inch of his life if he does it again while i'm offshore
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Old Jun 25, 2009 | 10:44 AM
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damn dude.
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Old Jun 25, 2009 | 11:29 AM
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Originally Posted by beanseff,Jun 25 2009, 10:42 AM
this is a touchy subject, i've cheated on my wife before we got married, a few times, i was stationed in germany and german girls are easy, couldn't help myself, anyway when we got married i told her everything, she forgave me but not after a big fight, it turns out she cheated on me too, and i knew the guy very well, and he was the last person i'd expect to do that to me, but it's a two way street, i forgave him, and were still friends but i threatened him within an inch of his life if he does it again while i'm offshore
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