View Poll Results: Is it morally wrong to knowingly hook up with someone who is in a relationship, that is be the other
No - cheating is only wrong for the person who is in the relationship, you're just in the right place at the right time
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From: Fajardo
just because people have sex with others does not mean the end of the world....can someone really exspect another to be with ONE person for a lifetime when there are so many people on the planet? Sex in my book does not equal love... love is a more than getting a nut.
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From: Land of Cincinnati Chili
Originally Posted by beanseff,Jun 25 2009, 02:42 PM
this is a touchy subject, i've cheated on my wife before we got married, a few times, i was stationed in germany and german girls are easy, couldn't help myself, anyway when we got married i told her everything, she forgave me but not after a big fight, it turns out she cheated on me too, and i knew the guy very well, and he was the last person i'd expect to do that to me, but it's a two way street, i forgave him, and were still friends but i threatened him within an inch of his life if he does it again while i'm offshore
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From: Wylie, TX
"Do unto others..." and all that stuff.
Would I want to be the guy whose girlfriend is cheating on him? No. Then that means that I shouldn't put another guy in that same position.
Pretty simple. Call it karma, "The Golden Rule", whatever. Every belief system has a 'rule' that tells you it's wrong. So, if you have any morals, then the answer is "Yes. It's wrong."
Would I want to be the guy whose girlfriend is cheating on him? No. Then that means that I shouldn't put another guy in that same position.
Pretty simple. Call it karma, "The Golden Rule", whatever. Every belief system has a 'rule' that tells you it's wrong. So, if you have any morals, then the answer is "Yes. It's wrong."
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From: Wylie, TX
Originally Posted by BearNVa,Jun 25 2009, 02:42 PM
can someone really exspect another to be with ONE person for a lifetime when there are so many people on the planet?
On the other hand, if you're just in a relationship/dating, it's still cheating unless you've explicitly told the person that you're "seeing other people." And even then, I would hope that you'd make it clear that "seeing other people" also includes having sex, so that everyone can take adequate precautions. Any time you're in a committed relationship, the expectation is that you're being faithful unless another arrangement has been explicitly agreed upon.
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From: Montclair,CA
If you don't know her boyfriend I say go for it. Your doing him a favor.
But on the other hand......you are getting his sloppy seconds.......and it could be literally minutes or hours after he tore her up........i mean she could have not even taken a shower or anything after he finished........ i'd pass
But on the other hand......you are getting his sloppy seconds.......and it could be literally minutes or hours after he tore her up........i mean she could have not even taken a shower or anything after he finished........ i'd pass
