A vasectomy was the best goddamn investment I have ever made, peroid. No whores ever gonna string me out for alimony and child support!

 

Do you have kids?

 

probably a good call, we don't need any angry Kyushin jr's running around.

 

I have not spawned, thank god!

 

Dont have em, dont want em. Its just not for me. Some people say its a joy, I see it as a chore and a expense. Besides, how many people have 9,10,11 of them? Im just balancing it out.

 

Wow man. I agree with you on a lot of what you said. I had my one and that's going to be it. I've just never heard of someone getting it done BEFORE having a kid.

 

Dude, this person speaks the truth!!!

I'm the one who works in the house and she stays home with the kid and goes to school 2 times a week.

Those day's she is at school. I am in charge of our kid.... and she drives me absolutely BONKERS! Dont get me wrong, I love my kid with every bit of heart I have... But DAMN no way I could handle being home with the kid like that without any relief

Be happy you get some quiet time dude, some people dont even get that !

Or perhaps you should file for 50/50 custody, and share with the expenses that way. Thats a sure fire way to lower your child support amount!

 

I have just sat back and observed many friends and their experiences and opinions. The couple I know that is the most happy and most successful have decided to never have kids, to this day they still look like they are in that honeymoon phase and have more time to devout to each other and themselves. Their finances and other means are all in a row, well organised and taken care of.

My friends who have had kids, id say 9 outta 10 of them are always stressed, running around, trying to plan for that next step for the kid, never have time for each other, finances are up and down, etc.....

Then I have seen the good and the bad with friend who have kids who are in their teens, and going through college. ALOT can happen, good and bad. Some of those things I will never be ready for and some I really dont know.

Im honest about it, im too selfish to have kids. I want that time for me and my significant other to do as we please. And if the time comes that we have to part ways, thats just one less complication.

So ya, it comes down to a personal preference, and I just dont think its for me.

 

 

Sounds like you need to drop out of school and get a better job or two. You did it backwards but your priority is your child now.