I completely agree with Greg on this one! Definitely move on. There are bigger and better things out there. You have to love yourself before you can truely love someone else.

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Well, having a child is fun! Seeing a child grow into a responsible adult is a blessing.

 

it hurts to be around dishonest people, but you'll get over it.

like myuuki said, go find some rebound snatch and then look for a new, decent girl to chill with.

 

TJ,

I'm sorry to hear that. That lost first love is always the most painful. Only time will heal your wounds. There are plenty of other girls for you, that's for sure. Try to find one with a lot less drama this time. It may be helpful for you to keep busy in the meantime to keep your mind off of this.

 

Thanks everyone for your comments and suggestions. I have read each and every one of them and taken them to heart. I'm just going through the emotional spectrum right now dealing with this. I do need to keep myself busy and I thank god for my car because I can just pop that top down and drive. "Lie to me once shame on me; lie to me twice shame on you; lie to me numerous times lie in the bed you've made." To anyone that has been cheated on out there: "WE WILL SURVIVE!" To anyone that has cheated: "Watch yoself!!!"

 

Two things that help me a lot when I'm upset is working out or driving. The next time I see you I expect you to be really huge and have messed up hair.

 

you don't need her TJ.

drive your car with the new injen intake, let the good times roar!

besides, you have all the pick you want at your clubs, no?

PS - can you PM me about some, er, "girls"?

 

i like that Josh..hehe.. anyways...JRM said it best as well as others on the board.. it was her loss.. when my girl broke up with me you know what i did to make me feel better? i walked in the garage.. turned on the lights...looked at my S2000 and said to myself... "i got the finest bitch on the block"... and she treats me good too... i know you smirked a lil bit life goes on and it only gets better..

 

I'm not going to try to give you any real advice but I hate to hear you're going through this pain. I've been there and I know it hurts deep. The true is -- she's the loser in this not you. Hang in there. I ended up with a great wife and you will too.

 

Sorry to hear about the painful experience you are going through. i must agree with Greg and many others who have told you to move on. Sounds like there were too many "broken" things in the foundation and it finally just crumbled. Better to get out now than be even deeper when the poo hit the fan. Up until now, my cars have always lasted longer than my relationships with women (...and since I got my S2000 before I got married, that may still stay true ) But seriously, let the car help you out in enjoying the drives AND picking up some fine new women (note that I do mean in the plural form) until thereal right one comes along. Good luck bro, and remember that your S2000 brethren will always be here to help you out. Cheers!

 

9000,

Consider yourself lucky. Like MHK said, things wouldve been much worse if she had moved to CA with you. The only things that will help you get over this is some time and LOTS of disctractions. Hang with your buds and enjoy the time that you have free in your s2k.
Think of this as a blessing. Imagine what it would be like if you found her with someone else in your own home. Dont give her anymore of your time or effort. This will hurt her more than anything you could say.
Hang tough.

Best regards,


Wynn