Cougars!
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Cougars!
How about the social trend of the Cougar?
Let me try to define the term.
Originally it meant an older, usually financially independent woman, middle aged, that has been divorced and otherwise has a bone to pick with men (read: Man hater) that does not want to get married or maybe does not even want a Boyfriend, they just want to have a good time and use men for sex and whatever else.
Lately, I've expanded the definition to "young cougar" that is very aggressive and dominant and thinks they need to rule every relationship.
Problem is, women can't be trusted with absolute power, they don't play by any rules and I never give it to them.
The Amazons have recently been proven to be an actual race of probably Germanic women that formed an all female society in Europe that didn't last all that long, my speculation is that internal dissent lead to the total destruction of their society. Reminds me of all the Lesbians I knew in Canada and the vicious, ruthless politics they practiced among themselves. The Amazons could not last and died out. Only ancient relics for Anthropologists to study are left.
No wonder there are so many gays, many men can't handle the women of today's culture. So many just want to sue us.
I'll never get married. Nuff said.
Anybody want to weigh in with opinions on this touchy topic?
Let me try to define the term.
Originally it meant an older, usually financially independent woman, middle aged, that has been divorced and otherwise has a bone to pick with men (read: Man hater) that does not want to get married or maybe does not even want a Boyfriend, they just want to have a good time and use men for sex and whatever else.
Lately, I've expanded the definition to "young cougar" that is very aggressive and dominant and thinks they need to rule every relationship.
Problem is, women can't be trusted with absolute power, they don't play by any rules and I never give it to them.
The Amazons have recently been proven to be an actual race of probably Germanic women that formed an all female society in Europe that didn't last all that long, my speculation is that internal dissent lead to the total destruction of their society. Reminds me of all the Lesbians I knew in Canada and the vicious, ruthless politics they practiced among themselves. The Amazons could not last and died out. Only ancient relics for Anthropologists to study are left.
No wonder there are so many gays, many men can't handle the women of today's culture. So many just want to sue us.
I'll never get married. Nuff said.
Anybody want to weigh in with opinions on this touchy topic?
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the fact is no one has ever told them "no" god forbid you are the one to do it. things have changed and these chicks know that they have power. i blame the schools the parents and everyone else who has given them the golden pass. but i have hope for the future because all great civilizations eventualy fall and once that does occur maybe the men of the future will have a chance to take the power back. for myself i live a life of isolation and anger all i have are a few fond memories that haunt me of "the way it could have been". i have friends who talk about moving overseas "oh yes it will be better in japan". my plan is to find a insecure woman who is just happy to have a guy look at her maybe that will work, i know this could take a very long time but what choice do i have.
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Yes women aren't the greatest in the world..But you men aren't all wonderfull!
You just need to find the right one..Stop looking in bars and night clubs. That will only get you one place..either in the sack or on ther bad side!
You just need to find the right one..Stop looking in bars and night clubs. That will only get you one place..either in the sack or on ther bad side!
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JonBoy, I greatly appreciate your comments and experience. You sound like a lucky Man. And I agree with you and treat Women with utmost appreciation and respect.
Problem is, I have so far made many selection errors and have had many bad experiences and end up in self protection mode.
Right now, I don't even trust my own attraction towards the Women to whom I feel turned on by.
Regardless, I know there are Great Women out there, my current opinion is that they are few and far in between. I've been kissing them Toads and have yet to find a Princess.
But, as Mick Jagger sings, sometimes a slut at a Truck Stop will do the trick (metaphorically speaking) and keep the hornies away.
"Just a rock for the lady, thanks" No white powdery drugs here. And no tweaked women will ever know where I live and they will never know me.
Enough said for now.
Problem is, I have so far made many selection errors and have had many bad experiences and end up in self protection mode.
Right now, I don't even trust my own attraction towards the Women to whom I feel turned on by.
Regardless, I know there are Great Women out there, my current opinion is that they are few and far in between. I've been kissing them Toads and have yet to find a Princess.
But, as Mick Jagger sings, sometimes a slut at a Truck Stop will do the trick (metaphorically speaking) and keep the hornies away.
"Just a rock for the lady, thanks" No white powdery drugs here. And no tweaked women will ever know where I live and they will never know me. Enough said for now.
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Well, Doug, I guess the only thing in question is your criteria. Just from what you said, I think you're going about it in a wrong way (my humble opinion). You say you date women that turn you on - that's not going to last (physical attraction isn't enough). Why not pick a woman that isn't necessarily hot (or turns you on), but looks really friendly and open? From my limited experience (I only dated six girls in my life, four of them before I was 17 - the last two were serious) I've found that hot girls tend to be trendy (ie, at first they're great, but they grow old fast). It's not that a woman can't be attractive and still stay exciting, fun, and loving and all that (my wife has it all), it's just that I think they are the exception rather than the rule (so you are right, they are few and far between).
Another thing I've found is this. A woman that dresses really hot (ie, super tight clothing, revealing, etc, etc) isn't going to be wife material - she's looking for attention, not real love. She's looking for a good time, not a serious relationship. Personally (and this is pretty harsh), I'd just as soon date a hooker than a woman that dresses/acts that way - they're the same, in my book, and the hooker is a lot more honest about where she stands on the issue.
So, like I said, why not try and go with someone that isn't quite so attention-seeking (or getting)? Take the girl that isn't quite so physically "perfect", but has a ready smile (not a "come and get me, big boy" smile - there IS a difference), an open mind, and isn't trusting in her body to get her a man. It is always good to sit back a while and watch a person as well - if you think you might like to date a girl, watch her for a while (no stalking!) - see how she acts with other guys, whether she's a total flirt (bad sign), whether she's honest, whether she's totally desperate, etc, etc... If she seems to be open but not too loose, give it a shot. A girl that jumps around from guy to guy (dating them or flirting with all of them) isn't going to stick with you for long - it's just not in her character.
Hang in there - you'll find one eventually (or she'll find you).
<laughing at the "kissing them toads and have yet to find a princess" line> Good one.
Another thing I've found is this. A woman that dresses really hot (ie, super tight clothing, revealing, etc, etc) isn't going to be wife material - she's looking for attention, not real love. She's looking for a good time, not a serious relationship. Personally (and this is pretty harsh), I'd just as soon date a hooker than a woman that dresses/acts that way - they're the same, in my book, and the hooker is a lot more honest about where she stands on the issue.
So, like I said, why not try and go with someone that isn't quite so attention-seeking (or getting)? Take the girl that isn't quite so physically "perfect", but has a ready smile (not a "come and get me, big boy" smile - there IS a difference), an open mind, and isn't trusting in her body to get her a man. It is always good to sit back a while and watch a person as well - if you think you might like to date a girl, watch her for a while (no stalking!) - see how she acts with other guys, whether she's a total flirt (bad sign), whether she's honest, whether she's totally desperate, etc, etc... If she seems to be open but not too loose, give it a shot. A girl that jumps around from guy to guy (dating them or flirting with all of them) isn't going to stick with you for long - it's just not in her character.
Hang in there - you'll find one eventually (or she'll find you).
<laughing at the "kissing them toads and have yet to find a princess" line> Good one.