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Ended a 5.5 year relationship. We were engaged.

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Old Mar 4, 2009 | 07:22 AM
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Old Mar 4, 2009 | 07:32 AM
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Originally Posted by blacktie,Mar 4 2009, 09:46 AM
SEARCH CRAIGSLIST FOR SOME CASUAL ENCOUNTERS, OR HOOKERS, EITHER WAY GO GET SOME STRANGE STD'S.
fixed....

and caps lock is cruise control to coolness
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Old Mar 4, 2009 | 07:36 AM
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Originally Posted by jacqueshammer,Mar 4 2009, 11:22 AM
find yourself a
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Old Mar 4, 2009 | 07:37 AM
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Originally Posted by zdave87,Mar 4 2009, 11:36 AM
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Old Mar 4, 2009 | 09:20 AM
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Originally Posted by senor_flojo,Mar 3 2009, 08:53 PM
Stop trying to hide your feelings.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bQtlrBziyzI
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Old Mar 4, 2009 | 11:41 AM
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Originally Posted by 8D_In_Trunk,Mar 4 2009, 12:20 PM
Stop trying to hide your feelings.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bQtlrBziyzI
I'd only be gay for you
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Old Mar 4, 2009 | 11:47 AM
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Originally Posted by Dizings2k,Mar 2 2009, 05:33 PM
I cannot keep my mind off of her. Even though I ended it and I was so so unhappy with our relationship. I know in my mind it could never work, yet I still have these urges to work things out.

I have trouble keeping myself busy when I am all alone in this house.
I've been in a very similar situation. Also 5.5 years and engaged. I won't mince words and tell you that it gets any easier in the short term. It didn't for me. But as a man, you just have to do whatever it takes to get yourself up and running in the morning. Life doesn't stop because of her.

It took me nearly 3 years to get her flushed out of my system. In the meantime, avoid the rebound relationship. I ended up with an unplanned pregnancy because of that mistake and although I am happy to have a son and I love him dearly, having a broken family is obviously not the situation I want my son to grow up in.

Life can be hard. Sometimes it can be very hard. Take it one day at a time. If that doesn't seem to work out, take it one minute or one second at a time. This thing can only beat you if you allow it to beat you.
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Old Mar 4, 2009 | 12:06 PM
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Originally Posted by senor_flojo,Mar 4 2009, 12:41 PM
I'd only be gay for you
You're not the first. . . you wouldn't be the last.

Just don't hold your breath.
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Old Mar 4, 2009 | 01:00 PM
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Originally Posted by 8D_In_Trunk,Mar 4 2009, 04:06 PM
Just don't hold your breath.
just the opposite, in fact: you'll want to exhale
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Old Mar 4, 2009 | 02:18 PM
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Originally Posted by my2ks2k,Mar 4 2009, 02:00 PM
just the opposite, in fact: you'll want to exhale
I'm sure he's waiting to exhale. . . . indeed.
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