Finding a "mate."
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Originally Posted by s2000raj,Jul 5 2007, 08:29 AM
who you calling a fairy?!! 
I think people who fall easily for love also run the risk of falling easily out of love.
The most important part of love for me is the relationship you build together and the experiences you've shared.
Not so much who they are as what you've become together....
I wouldn't be the same person without my wife. Life may have been better or worse, but I'd be a different person leading a different life.
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Originally Posted by shareall,Jul 4 2007, 05:10 PM
IMO people who believe in "love at first sight" have an immature view of love. But there can absolutely be a strong attraction at first sight. Love takes time.
We are not static beings. Over the course of our lives we change and grow - I think finding love involves finding someone you can continue to grow with.
We are not static beings. Over the course of our lives we change and grow - I think finding love involves finding someone you can continue to grow with.
so hard to meet that someone...
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I firmly believe in lust at first sight. Emphasis on the "firm" heheheheh-m-heh-heh-m-heh.
The women in my life I immediately fell in love with were some of the worst women for me. So, my tendency isn't towards "happily ever after;" it's more toward "happily ever earned."
The women in my life I immediately fell in love with were some of the worst women for me. So, my tendency isn't towards "happily ever after;" it's more toward "happily ever earned."
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Originally Posted by 8D_In_Trunk,Jul 6 2007, 08:15 PM
I firmly believe in lust at first sight. Emphasis on the "firm" heheheheh-m-heh-heh-m-heh.
The women in my life I immediately fell in love with were some of the worst women for me. So, my tendency isn't towards "happily ever after;" it's more toward "happily ever earned."
The women in my life I immediately fell in love with were some of the worst women for me. So, my tendency isn't towards "happily ever after;" it's more toward "happily ever earned."
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Grow into it....
It all depends on your own definition of "Love"....
True unconditional love could not come at first sight.
Through time and growth...people learn to love each other.
Love is not an emotion.....it's a decision.
Tim
It all depends on your own definition of "Love"....
True unconditional love could not come at first sight.
Through time and growth...people learn to love each other.
Love is not an emotion.....it's a decision.
Tim
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Originally Posted by SIIK2NR,Jul 8 2007, 08:08 PM
Grow into it....
It all depends on your own definition of "Love"....
True unconditional love could not come at first sight.
Through time and growth...people learn to love each other.
Love is not an emotion.....it's a decision.
Tim
It all depends on your own definition of "Love"....
True unconditional love could not come at first sight.
Through time and growth...people learn to love each other.
Love is not an emotion.....it's a decision.
Tim
This is very true as well. You're the one that decides if you want to be with someone or not. If you know you don't want to be with someone, then get out before you get attached because once you become attached... you're stuck between a VERY painful rock and hard place. I think you can figure out how I know.
Andre
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