Need some help advice. I'm taking this girl out to dinner Friday night who I really like. We already had dinenr before but with my cousin and her friend 2 weeks ago. Anyways, I want to let this girl know I want more than friendship. How can let her know w/o actually telling her straight up. made this mistake once with an unbelievable looking girl .

 

well maybe if the date goes well you can do it after...... if the date sucks maybe you might wanna wait a while, go on more dates.....

 

If i were in your situation, I would try to get to know her first. Then start to go on more 1 on 1 dates. With time you can definitely tell if she has an interest for you.

I think springing up a more then just friends line is too early if she doesn't even know you all that well.

just my .2 cents.. Good luck!

 

just work your "mojo," and see how it all plays out. Pay attention to her body language, see if there are is "unecessary" touching on her part. i.e., gentle pawing, grabing, hand placement. If that starts goin' down, she digs you. It may all fall into palce where you don't even have to tell her. It will just be understood between the two of you. Happened to me like that.

 

Let her know how you feel... express yourself. lol, make a move. Love bites if the other person doesn't feel the same, so if you are let down... don't sweat it.

 

Hey Rob! You back in Miami?

My advice... pay attention to her, make lots of eye contact without starring, just be straight up with her and make a move. Good luck.

 

Ok dude,

first start her with a Martini, then with dinner make sure you guys have red wine, I suggest big, strong Cabernet or even better if you find a good red Zinfandell. Then take her out to some club or a nice lounge for few after hours cocktails. That kind of a night never failed me!!! She'll be way to drunk to resist, at least for one night

 

Don't waste time playing immature games. If she is going out with you (2nd time), she probably has at least thought about you. After you have been approached by the waiter for drink order, look into her eyes and tell her that you think she is extremely attractive and you have been thinking about her since the last dinner. Tell her that if she does not agree to another date, you will make a seen in the restaurant (jokingly)

Don't waste time with games, that's when someone else will ask her out.

 

Better said... that's me all the way bro.

 

Most guys have a tendancy to scare girls away when they REALLY like the girl (or think they do).

I had this stewardess I was dating in college. She was soo friggin hot that she gave me the crazies. She looked like 25 yr old Linda Evangelista. I just couldn't do a whole lot else except chase her. Unfortunately, it was from airport to airport and it cost me lots of dough/ Everytime she'd call I'd cancel what I was doing and jump on a plane or in the car.

My point: Take your time and let things develop. Don't play games but don't lay it all out there. She'll step all over you.

Well the stewardess dumped me (I think I over did it) and I met my future wife about 2 months later. As soon as the stewardess heard I was with someone new she comes back crying I told her to find someone else to chase her.