Good advice people. He'll be happy to see multiple points of view

 

Don't tell him to cheat on her.

Once he goes on that track, it will be hard to get off. You know what they say, "once a cheat always a cheat."

There are only 2 ways to deal with this.

1. GET OVER IT.
2. GET ON WITH IT.

It'll be hard to ask a person to do something other than what his gut feeling is telling him to feel. Right now, he's feeling like he's been cheated on because losing his virginity to her wasn't reciprocated. I'm not saying it will be impossible, but it will take time to sort this out--ALONE. There is nothing you or her can say to him that will convince him of otherwise.

And if he can't come to terms with it. Well...it's time to let go. It's not fair to ask him to accept something for which he is unwilling to and it's not fair to make her feel bad by bringing this up to her face--which will happen from time to time. Making her feel guilty won't make her stay because quite frankly, what's done is done. He just needs time to realize that she didn't do it TO HURT HIM.

Sincerely,
Aunt Jemima

 

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