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Old Nov 3, 2007 | 10:54 PM
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There's this girl I like and I asked her out but found she had a boyfriend.

Thing is, she then told me (without me asking it of course) that she would definitely go out with me if she didn't have a BF. I don't think that's something that a girll in love would say to a prospective suitor.

Then she got into things about her boyfriend. She said everyone says he's a loser. This comes into the reason I didn't know she was going out with him because she didn't tell anyone; I think she's kind of ashamed. Then she mentioned that she's broken up with him a few times but he's "the klind of guy that won't take no for an answer" which makes me think she's on the fence about keeping him around. Then she says if they break up we can definitely go out.

She's also told other people that she'd definitely go out with me if she wasn't with her current BF.

Do you think there's a chance in hell that there's an imminent break-up or should I just move on. I really like this girl and I think she likes me, too. I'm not going to try to poison her relationship or anything as that's just not my style.
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Old Nov 3, 2007 | 11:26 PM
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if ur looking for a little sexy time then go for it.

what makes u think she wont leave u if some1 thought U were a loser?
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Old Nov 4, 2007 | 01:23 AM
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Oh boy. One of these girls with bf situations...

Don't get involved. She just likes the extra attention she is getting (from you). Find someone else. Move on. Don't ever wait for a girl to be free. Use your time wisely. Find someone else. There are many other girls out there. Don't let this crush of yours take control of you.

I hope you follow my advice, even though I doubt you will.
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Old Nov 4, 2007 | 12:26 PM
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If this guy is so bad she would not be with him. Tell her to call you when they are officially broken up. Leave it at that and don't move into the friend zone.
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Old Nov 4, 2007 | 12:53 PM
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this way.....to the friends zone.
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Old Nov 4, 2007 | 01:13 PM
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Good advice so far here...so no need in repeating any of it...Good Job guys!
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Old Nov 4, 2007 | 01:21 PM
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Old Nov 4, 2007 | 01:42 PM
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spot on..i have a female friend who is an attention whore like that. miserable in her relationship, whores it up at parties and bars only to lead guys on to thinking they have a chance..its really sad to watch...she even mentions her bf is a loser too.

if she isnt a friend already, i wouldnt even go that route since if you really do like this chick, you will never be happy.
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Old Nov 4, 2007 | 02:47 PM
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Women like that are not worth the time. They feed on drama. If you want and like drama in your life, pursue this. If you wish to be free of a drama-whore succubus, then move on.
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Old Nov 4, 2007 | 02:56 PM
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picture???
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