Sorry bout the double. Just finished that Trailer for "birthday girl". Very cool idea for a movie, in fact, im going to rent it tonight, but it's not based in reality one iota.

 

i think, and i hope those who've had the experience will chime in as well, that asian women can spoil you to death. forget about china, vietnam, and other 3rd world countries. i'm talking about beautiful, educated, fluent in english, and very family oriented females in taiwan, japan, singapore, and of course korea (though in LA i know my k-town bros will disagree). i'm not talking about asian americans who are as much a twinkie as lucy liu, but if you get a chance to see and meet women in japan, korea, taiwan, or singapore, i think you'll be pleasantly surprised.

 

Silverstoned, I have personally been to the Ukraine with a friend of mine. Great time, great place, great women. If I had more $$ I'd be going over there more. PM me if you want more info on this subject. My friend is an immigration attorney and has been there (Ukraine, St Pete, Moscow, Kiev, etc...) probably 40-50 times and knows the system well.

The biggest thing I would say is watch out for scammers. If you're just going for a good time, take plenty of protection....If you're thinking about a mate, I would say about 50% of the women there are looking to skim some money out of someone by saying their grandma, mom, etc...is sick or something.

 

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[QUOTE]Originally posted by S1999+1
The biggest thing I would say is watch out for scammers.

 

Perhaps the domestic product won't be so gross

 

Well, I personally don't see anything wrong with it. There are certainly TONS of attractive and sexy women not only in Eastern Europe, but also in South America.

However, I would not go as far as making the statement that they are "more classy" than American women. I think it depends on the background of the women you are meeting here in the US.

I have met some wonderful women here in the US....unfortunately they are all married and/or are in serious relationships... so those don't count.

I have actually considered taking a trip to those places as well...hmmmm

 

Where else would a guy find a broad?


Sorry. I just had to do it. My gut says to not do it unless you have a very long engagement. I may get flamed but women are not chattel. I'd say it's about as risky as finding a mate in the personals. It may work but then again....Beware of the mafia scene and these border brides. Regarding any prospective mate, check out the family, friends and really get to know. You marry a lady and you do marry the family. The whole family. Good and bad. Make sure you get along with the prospective inlaws first and make sure you are comfortable with her past. She will have a past. I still wouldn't do it. Love just happens. Travel and discover yes but marry no no no!

Just my .02 pieces of silver.

 

My SO is from India originally. He has lived in America for 20 years...we fell in love and built our relationship as many Americans do, but many Indians prefer to have some sort of arranged marriage.

As a rhetorical question, what calibre of woman are you looking to find? The more educated and successful the lady is, the less likely she is to drop everything and elope.

Next question, what will she do when she gets here? Will she work? Will she stay home? If she stays home, what will she do besides housework?

Language. If you marry a woman that did not live in an English-speaking country as a child, chances are she is going to converse in her native tounge with other speakers of her language. She may want to find people that speak her language. That means there may be conversations going on around you that you do not understand. Would that bother you?

Culture. You'll be asked why you want to marry a (say) Russian bride by the girl, her family, your family, and probably everyone else for a long time. But what do you really know about the culture, the people? You may need to know enough to be convincing.

I have no idea what European people do, but you may want to look and see if there is some sort of matrimonial ad where men and women can exchange profiles of each other and decide on there own if they should meet live.

good luck

 

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I would love to find a forum that focuses on this, but so far have had no luck in finding one. If you have a suggestion, I'd be glad to hear it.