alright..well me and my girl have been going out for like 3 years...im 20...my bst friend (chick) and her went to high school together...me and my friend have always had some sort of attraction to each other but it was always something trivial..we were always in relationship and aside from obvious sexual tension, it was always cool..well around november of last year we have kind of been hooking up...nothing more than making out and sleeping together (not sex)...in short it was kept non "sexual" but still intimate...its happened a few times since then and lately we always talked about us when we were drunk...she has been going out with her bf for 5 yrs and is bored and unsatisfied (truth, not my emotions) with him but it so attached due to the time.

in short we talked (drunk and then sober) and she is still attached and im not so anymore...i told her i wouldnt hook up with her anymore because its not right to my gf...she doesnt really see it too much of a problem since she is unhappy but refuses to get out of it...now there is a rift between us...most recently she told me she could only imagine how good the sex would be and how she hopes we go out at some point ... wtf? ive decided im breaking up with my girl at some point soon..but what of her..i think about this chick all the time now..im not sure if its my pride that wants her or i really do...our friendship is kind of sketch now and i feel awkward talking to her...any advice

 

20 years old? Bang away.

 

How's the relationship with your girlfriend?

 

1. Break up with your g/f. You clearly don't respect her, therefore she deserves better.

2. Find yourself a new "best friend" ( ). You can't be "best friends" with a chick unless you're gay. Are you gay?

3. Don't start a relationship with your former "best friend." If she left some guy for you, she will leave you for some guy.

4. Grow up. Seems like you're one drunken stupid move from creating excess drama for FOUR people, and you need advice from strangers on the internet?

Odds are, you won't follow any of the above advice... but hey, I tried.

 

this happens to a lot of us. and most of us usually give in and have sex with the girl. honestly, its hard to run from sex, and most of us dont really want to. and a lot of girls pull that 'we're such good friends' game and get closer and closer to you until they can get what they want. she wants you 8 times more since you have a girlfriend. have fun with her, but whatever you do, DO NOT fall for her. dont give her your trust or you'll regret it. if you do have a fling, don't be worried at all, it'll get awkward then it'll return right back to normal. dont be jealous when she talks to other guys, never look at her like she's 'yours.' she's just not the type. i wouldn't be too hard on yourself, unless you feel like the girl you're dating is 'the one' and your ready to be with just her.

 

relationship with girlfriend is good but im bored and i think i should be in a relationship if all i do is think about other people i want to be with...i dont want a relationship with the other girl for some of the above mentioned points...if she does this to her bf, well.....also she does create alot of drunken drama...but as a friend she rocks... my dilemna isnt about my gf but but rather the awkward situation with my friend...anybody been there?

 

 

Well I guess I can't make it any clearer than this: Your best friend, who happens to be a girl, wants to #### your brains out. Do it.

 

"Friends" are just girls you haven

 

Who cares what you choose to do, in the long run you've screwed things up with both of them. Th GF WILL find out, and you are done. The "friend" may decide to date you for a while, but if this friend had no respect for you, her own friend (your current girlfriend), and her boyfriend of 5 years, she is an immature skank who is incapable of a relationship with anyone.

So, do whatever bings you the most short term satisfaction because it will go to crap pretty quickly.