girl looking at me from across the bar
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Originally Posted by fallen612,Aug 13 2009, 07:51 PM
well i was eating sushi today at the local sushi place, and i was sitting at the sushi bar. i was wiht my dad, brother, and my brothers friend. the actual bar is across from the sushi bar, and i look across adn theres this good looking girl sitting at the bar by herself, drinking a drink(non alcholoic, prob a softdrink in a styrophome cup) it was around 2:00 p.m. anyway i look up and we make eye contact, but i look away(im timid, and not very good with the ladies, haha). but i didnt think anything of it, cuz i was with my dad, and my little brother, and his friend. i continue eating my sushi, and a news camera man, nad another woman whos older walks in. they walk over and greet each other, and i would guess whe is a intern or something. cuz the other woman that walked in was the ancorwoman, and the other guy was the camera man. they start setting up and shes still at the bar, i look up again and we make eye contact again, and then she smiles. i smile but look down. once again im no good wiht the ladies. what i was wondering is, was she trying to get me to come and talk to her, especially because i was with my dad and little brother. like i said she was very attractive, she looked to be around 20 or so, and im 18 and a freshman in college. dont know if that matters much. i know i wasent staring at her, haha, she was at the bar most of the time, after she smiled at me, she went and started setting up with the camera guy, and news ancorwoman. and im no good wiht girls, and i jsut didnt know if she was trying to hit on me or what. haha. or if i should have approched her. thanks guys, and sorry for the high school type post, but didnt know who else to ask. thanks!
If you can't put your thoughts into a coherent paragraph, no wonder you suck at talking to the ladies.
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It is better to regret something you did than something you didn't do.
Also try visualizing her naked for a second or 5. Looks good huh. Now, if you want to really see her naked and lying next to you, you need to man up and go chat to her.
Also try visualizing her naked for a second or 5. Looks good huh. Now, if you want to really see her naked and lying next to you, you need to man up and go chat to her.
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Originally Posted by fallen612,Aug 13 2009, 04:13 PM
yea. i get what yall mean. i couldnt do it there cuz my dad and brother was there. didnt want to mess up our lunch. hah
Needless to say, you should have maintained eye contact a little longer, smiled, and then gone up to her towards the end of your meal (or when she was looking to get ready to leave) and just introduced yourself if nothing else.
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From: jinhaa, south korea
hmm..shes maybe nice, and doesnt want you to come over, but the fact she looked again means shes not turned off to you
so you gotta look up and catch her eye again hold the gaze maybe kinda smile and turn your head to your company(father ect.) yet hold your eyes on her as you turn it, then after walk up to her
and talk, and dont be a douche when you do it
but if it were me, i would yell at her "all your base are belong to us" and then cordialy ask her number
so you gotta look up and catch her eye again hold the gaze maybe kinda smile and turn your head to your company(father ect.) yet hold your eyes on her as you turn it, then after walk up to her
and talk, and dont be a douche when you do it
but if it were me, i would yell at her "all your base are belong to us" and then cordialy ask her number
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Originally Posted by zdave87,Aug 13 2009, 04:13 PM
Dude-
If you can't put your thoughts into a coherent paragraph, no wonder you suck at talking to the ladies.
If you can't put your thoughts into a coherent paragraph, no wonder you suck at talking to the ladies.
i bet he'd be like mush mouth trying to pick her up:
wheresa yousa froma?
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Originally Posted by beanseff,Aug 13 2009, 05:05 PM
i bet he'd be like mush mouth trying to pick her up:
wheresa yousa froma?
Seriously though man,atleast from my experiences ,most of the time if a girl is checkin you out from across the way...she wants you to come over.
Sometimes it leads to a just good conversations,sometimes a number, sometimes a bit more,and sometimes she took a glance because she thought you were attractive an nothing more.
But don't pass up the opportunity's.
Besides the more you do it,the easier it'll become and you strike out less depending on what your going after.
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^yea. i dont really know what i would have said though. all i could think of if i would have gone over was, whats a pretty girl like you doing sitting by yourself. you think that would have been good?