I agree!!! DUMP her ASS and bang her friends!!!

 

Let me preface this by saying this is brutally honest advice coming from a guy who just got sick and tired of getting his chained yanked. Also, I often write what I write in such a style as to make good reading. I say what I say though, because it pains me to see guys making mistakes I made when I was younger. Unkie 8D Says:

The deal is you're gonna find your cojones, and use them. Starting right now.

This is so wrong on so many levels. You're young. You've got your whole life ahead of you, including some major personal growth in the next 10-12 years. Trust the older guys on here on this one.
Why are you living with her? Really? What's the bonus? Really? Think about it. Think about it hard. Think about the liabilities you're incurring by having her there.

She's good at bitching. That's what it's telling me, and I don't even know her. This is the kind of girl 'we' like to call a Dream Killer. You have your life, your passions, and this non-stop-bitch-fest-incarnate is not on the same page with you on these objects and what they meant to you. She's unsupportive of your hobbies/passions. So, why are you living with her again?

Like the guys above have stated, it's not the quantity, it's the quality. Doesn't matter though. You're 18. Honestly, you should be doing two things: 1) working on the getting the rest of your life in order career and money-wise 2) dating (read that as you will) as many women as possible so that when you decide you don't want to be the old guy at the club, you can settle down with the RIGHT woman, NOT THE EASIEST AVAILABLE. Again, why are you living with one woman right now?

On this one again, it's a quality versus quantity issue. What's this whole manuever (you go out, she stays at home) say to her?

Well, I can kinda understand; I'm no fan of bikes. Regardless, does she not like being on the bikes with you? That could tell you something.

You can't. Either she accepts you wholly or not. That comes with maturity.

As I said above, things come with maturity. Down the line, she may come to accept your hobbies and passions, and be supportive. Or, she may not. Worse, she could just resign herself to the fact you're going to do what you want, and then become resentful. The question is, are you really willing to sit around and wait for something that might happen? Are you willing to wait that long?

DUMP THAT B_TCH
- Do not move in with any woman without a written agreement.
- Do not get married until you're 30.
- Do not EVER sell your passions for a woman. It's your passions that get you women.

I hope my, and the other users' advice, is helpful. Go forth and Conquor!

 

you and ur gf has some growing up to do.. not saying you guys are immature or anything... you guys are just too young.. thats why she's complaining and complaining.. and you cant understand why that is...

 

Best post ever on this site!

You guys are too young to be living together. Neither one of you have a clue about what you want from the opposite sex - you can't have learned it at your age.

The objection to the toys probably has to do with her trying to test how much shit you'll put up with and playing around with a power struggle. Once again - you're too young to be even thinking about this being long term.

The toys aren't the issue.

 

Amen!

 

 

No one knows your specific situation, how mature either of you are, how emotionally aware you two might be, etc...

That being said with what little information I have...


GET THE FVCK OUT NOW!!!!


Everyone here is assuming the status quo which goes with the fact you even posted the question because if you had a clue you'd have already dealt with this issue and would have resolved it in 5 minutes. So either you're not aware of how your or her emotions work and/or your simply not ready for this level of commitment so based on that everyone is telling you

GET THE FVCK OUT NOW!!!!

What do you want a starter marriage that ends in your heart ripped from its chest or would you want to cheat on her and later rip her heart from her chest?

However you could just end up building up resentment to the point you want to see her get into a horrible car accident and die so you will be free and 50 years later you die of a heart attack all the time a miserable fvck of a person so...

GET THE FVCK OUT NOW!!!

Did I get the point across?

This is how every other guy ruins his wonderful 20's

GET THE FVCK OUT NOW!!!

Basically that's the road you are on now!

We're only saying it because we have either seen buddies go down this same path or more likely (in my case) been there done that wrote the book on it and now after I could've learned everything I have learned by dating every peice I could've gotten my hands on rather than getting married to the woman that took my virginity and being miserable until she cheated on me with my cousins fiance Damn dude I could go on and on. Life is great for me now but those days were miserable so I'll sum it up in one sentence.

GET THE FVCK OUT NOW!

Since you'll probably ignore us, let us know when the wedding date is and where it'll be. We'll crash in when he asks if there is anyone here to... OR let us know when the baby is going to be born. Cause you'll tell her its over she'll keep giving you free sex while stopping the pill and she'll get preggers on you to trap your sorry ass.

GOD DOES ANYONE ELSE SEE THIS COMING?

 

hey wait, before you send her off as advised, a few ?s

 

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I'm totally kidding. Speaking from personal experience, you should probably take some time now and enjoy single life if that's what you really want. You shouldn't have to put up with that kind of nagging at an age like that. At 18, playing the field is an experience that shouldn't be passed up, you might have some regrets later on (maybe?).

Good luck whatever you decide. Girlfriends can be a tough business man.

 

Great choice of toys (see below).

I agree with some of the less juvenile advice above except the one about getting rid of one of the toys "for her".

You work hard right? You do save money for your future right?

If so, tell her your passion for this stuff will never go away. It's what you are simply made of and she cannot change it.

Ride on...........