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Off-topic TalkWhere overpaid, underworked S2000 owners waste the worst part of their days before the drive home. This forum is for general chit chat and discussions not covered by the other off-topic forums.
find a girlfriend who supports your interestes, mine got my s2k tinted, got me my volk lugs, and my clear corners done by ricks. she also buys me fishing tackle on a regular basis. time to find a trick that enjoys your hobbies, kuz they make you happy/
The majority of the above posts are Words of the Wise.
This is some of the best advice you could possibly ever get. TRUST me you have Three of the Best things in life (at your age)
The Car
The Bike
And The Age
I understand that you see your typing is deceitful. After a few days, possible a weekend or two, you'll thank everyone on here.
You started way too young, fortunately it's not too late. Your not even 21, you are still not allowed in some public buildings. There is too much for you to experience.
Coming from a younger married guy and ex-VFR rider.....drop the girl and keep the bike. It sounds like you need to go out and enjoy life without having someone complaining about it. At this point in your life, she is only holding you down. When the weather is right, the S will collect dust and that VFR will be all you think about. Ride safe and go check out VFRdiscussion.com.
Deep down I think Im insecure about her moving out, but I want to do what I want to do. Whenever I wanna do it! Its selfish, but Ive been anything but selfish towards her for almost 3 years. This summer, I dont want to go on vacation with her. I want to ride or take the bike to the beach somewhere and ride some nice places and some nice women... not think about how much shes going to bitch because Ive been on the bike for such and such hours....
Smart comment, this deserves some praise!
This is what you need to focus on, the what and why you feel the way you do. It's not going to go away. Sure you can ignore how you trully feel but it'll only bite you in the ass later.
It's not selffish! Its how you feel! Whats selfish is probably sticking with her because you beleive you owe it to her when it actuallity you owe it to her to pull back out and up from this relationship.
Don't find another woman before you leave! That's just not cool, better to be single when you leave someone. Deal with the worse emotion almost everyone has had to dealwith, loneliness, for a while.
If you're going to move on make sure you're damn strong about it. You might think you're being heartless when you tell her that it need to end. Don't be specific about the reasons, it'll just hurt her more and you'll start feeling like you have to soften the blow, once you do that you might not end up leaving. Breaking up with someone is really tough, so you have to be damn sure you're ready for it and do not change your mind ever.
Kill her with kindness the whole time and every time she calls afterwards but never ever go back. Try to make it so she feels comfortable enought to keep in touch but never let here think there is a hint of possiblity of getting back together and NEVER HAVE SEX WITH HER AGAIN!
Man I feel for you and your situation and I feel for her. After the initial blow and she's out of the place it'll start being better, expect a rough ride for 6 months or so. Men tend to take a lot longer to get over it than women, so brace yourself because she'll be in a relationship with another man before you know it.
Think about that one for a while before you move. She's going to be getting banged by someone else sortly after you leave. Do yourself a favor and deal with that thought before you make the move. When you find out you need to keep it together man!
^^ Good advice, excel. It seems like its better to be the one doing the breaking up, because you have more control over the situation (if that makes sense). Don't get beat to the punch if that's where the relationship is heading, I think you'll feel better for it.
And might I add when you do finally decide to get rid of her, do it as nice as possible...Never give these woman a chance to bad mouth you in anyway..I would even suggest helping take her shit out of the apartment....and as stated above by exceltoexcel DEFINITELY DO NOT BANG HER AGAIN...this only causes problems...BUT DEFINITELY try and pull a CHAMBERLIN and pad your stats...good luck and enjoy
Originally Posted by Dizings2k,Jan 27 2006, 02:16 PM
Heres the deal:
Im 18 and have been with my Gf that lives with me here in Pittsburgh PA for alittle under 3 yrs. We've lived together for about 6 months.
Since we've been together, Ive gotten the S2000 - She bitched
I got an ATV that I love - Honda 400ex- She bitched
On February 15th Im picking up a 2006 Honda VFR 800 - She's bitching.
Can someone tell me wtf this means???
Shes mad because the motorcycle is another thing thats going to take our time away from eachother.... WE LIVE TOGETHER!
I dont understand what "time" that we dont spend together.
The car isnt out right now (winter) and the bike wont be ridden here in Pittsburgh.
Due to work schedule, Im only able to travel to Johnstown (2 hours away) once every two weeks from Friday through Sunday. During this time in town, She visits her family and I go out on the 400ex. Now, Yes, this summer I will be out on the Quad or Bike and then the S2k or whatever order it may be... She wont ride the 400ex with me or the bike, so the S2k is the only thing that she'll ride with me in.
How can I get her to accept the toys??
I get the feeling shes going to be this way for the rest of her life... I cant live like that at all. When it comes to replacing all these toys with newer and better, Do I have to hear about this every time!!!
Should I just tell her to move out now and get on with my life before I waste anymore???
Thanks for my first laugh of the day.
