Girlfriend's Family Problems
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From: Lewsville
[QUOTE]Originally posted by jmc1971
[B]Seung gave you good advice. But in the likely event that her parents don't change their minds, you're pretty much out of options. Whether you like it or not and whether it's fair or not, they are her parents, she's not an adult, and they get to make the rules. You have absolutely no right to undermine their authority. Once she's an adult and on her own, then it's a whole different story...
All that being said, I know it's a lousy answer, but it's true.
[B]Seung gave you good advice. But in the likely event that her parents don't change their minds, you're pretty much out of options. Whether you like it or not and whether it's fair or not, they are her parents, she's not an adult, and they get to make the rules. You have absolutely no right to undermine their authority. Once she's an adult and on her own, then it's a whole different story...
All that being said, I know it's a lousy answer, but it's true.
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From: La La Land
Seriously there is a way to win her back but it will require a lot of work. Are you willing to go the distance? If so-- READ ON... It's obvious her family know you only by your bad reputation and there's no way in hell you can talk your way out. That's how Chinese parents are! Trust me I'm Chinese 
So what you have to do is use your reputation to win them over. Do something positive like 1. join a church and be active there (a lot of chicks there by the way ) 2. work on your studies and try to get into a good school (parents like that) 3. put together something in the community-- a benefit or volunteer drive. 4. work with those people who've bad mouthed you... In short, clean up your act if you're perceived as a guy not worthy of their daughter, don't talk but SHOW you're a changed man.
So what you have to do is use your reputation to win them over. Do something positive like 1. join a church and be active there (a lot of chicks there by the way ) 2. work on your studies and try to get into a good school (parents like that) 3. put together something in the community-- a benefit or volunteer drive. 4. work with those people who've bad mouthed you... In short, clean up your act if you're perceived as a guy not worthy of their daughter, don't talk but SHOW you're a changed man.
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From: ec
how are things going bud? similar situation is making my life a livign hell right now.. and i'm just sitting here following the advices of my fellow s2kers.. cant go wrong there. but if theres a will.. theres a way =D
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From: La Ca
lol I seriously think we should have a Relationship/Life help forum
for problem and situations, DOCOFMIND should be tha moderator! haha
but ona side note, ur young man, I know that's not what u want to hear.
but always think if it's meant to be it'll happen. no matter tha situation.
for problem and situations, DOCOFMIND should be tha moderator! haha
but ona side note, ur young man, I know that's not what u want to hear.
but always think if it's meant to be it'll happen. no matter tha situation.
will... why are u tellin shit about u and me to the whole damn world... 