Would you prefer that she either lied to you about her past or didn't tell you at all?


Hey, it is what it is. Either accept it and move on with the relationship or realize that it's going to bother you forever and end it now.

 

You 2 are young just screw each other and have some fun

 

It's always refreshing to hear that a guy was on the receiving end of statutory rape gw!

anyways.. back to the topic.. I think you'll grow out of it.. just have to think carefully what's important to you. If her past (which is not ALL that bad) is something you cannot get over, then move on. Just keep in mind that the older you get, the less likely you'll find someone w/ a sparkly clean record.

 

if she says they were mistakes then move on. the thing about the shirt though, maybe she was having some fun just tell her it bothered you


i sugges though if its bothering you alot you wont go anywhere with this girl its going to keep haunting you forever until you can accept it

 

All of the "grow up" comments are a tad patronising guys..... Come on, who hasn't been in their teens/twenty-somethings and been sure you love someone so much you'll explode. Ok us thirty-somethings ( ) know he'll get over it and move on, but there'll still be a broken heart involved.

As for advice:

Two at 18 isn't so bad. It's her attitude that seems the issue (for you especially). Guys tend to fall into two groups IMHO - those that do care about the past and those that don't. Welcome to the first camp.

If this is how you feel, you won't change her and you won't change you. Either the ar$e of her or get someone more "homely" (and don't get cross when your sweet homely girl won't perform sexual gymnastics).

Either way mate, at 17, this is unlikely to be your last girlfriend .....

 

I agree, it seems it is not really her past (we ALL know 2 is a SMALLLLL number nowadays and normally, they bump those numbers down), but her behavior. Doing it in the past is different than doing it in the present. If she's done it already and didn't really need to be pushed much or at all for that matter, then she obviously cares little about public displays, etc....which would personally bother me. My friends do it, which I like to watch b/c it's funny, but I would never date them b/c it's not my personal preference for someone who may potentially be my wife one day.

Honestly, if it were me, and my gf just took off her clothes, flashed her boobs, etc in front of ANYONE while we were dating, I'd dump her faster than the second it took me to think about it. That's just me though.

 

to that whole thing with the shirt coming off, that was 3 weeks into your relationship and you've been with her for 2 years....my point.....you're still holding that over her head?!?!?! Grow UP!!!! And like that other guy said, she's ONLY been with 2 other people? You wait, the girl you finally marry will have been having three holes penetrated at once by the time you meet her. If you're immature enough to be freaking out about old shit than just leave her for her own good. You can't get over the old stuff and love her for who she is now than you don't deserve her. You worry about what she might be doing now when you're not there? It's probably because you never want to have any fun and she can only have fun when you're gone. "Come on boys!!! LES-PAAAARTY!!!"

 

 

Females can be more scandalous than us guys... and it sucks b/c some of us dudes are actually honest and upright.

Don't let her play around with you... if that's what's going on, drop her a$$ .

 

You guys are kids fer crying out loud. If she didn't experiment a little before you, you're niave to think she won't when she's with you. Better to get it out of your system before commiting. I'm sorry if this offends, but you sound really insecure(what are you hiding?). Do you own an S2000, if so..HOW? You're only 17.