to be fair, we must ask ourselves "how many girls is too many?"

what's the answer to that one boys?

 

by age 28, a few guys would be okay. As long as they were serious relationships and not one night stands.

 

Besides, if she's been with several guys, she'll probably fudge the number anyway.

She, like many guys, may have gone through a rebound period where she d it up, but lots of times people move on from that. Doesn't mean she's a bad person or that it would negatively impact your relationship with her. Everyone has a past. Can't change it.

 

she may have blacked out and lost count

 

What difference does it make??? If a guy has multiple partners he worshiped by his friends, if a woman has multiple partners she's considered a slut. It's pure BS. Get over it, it is what drives existence.

 

it really depends on how you like the person. If you like her a lot, then dont worry about it. Hell, I went out with a 27 yr old when I was 18. I didnt care about how many guys she was with. I almost married her too until she moved and became psycho

 

Haha - some of you guys crack me up.

Think about it. Girls have it tough. We all know the whole, "guy does it hes a player, girl does it shes a slut" - Well its true, but funny.

Im 20 and have been with 35+. If I had my chance at everyone I've wanted at partys, work, school, etc, who knows how high that number would be. Girls have a decent chance at getting laid when they want, from who they want. I'd say someone whos 28 and is under 30 is doing ok. Yea, it bugs me to talk about my girls past with her, but whats done is done. We've all been whores at some point and if not - have wanted to.

Its gravy baby - just move on and get your groove on.

 

I agree. Don't ask her, let her know not to ask you and let that be the end of it. If you're already on the topic with her, just drop it.

 

At 28, the sky is the freakin' limit. Don't ask.

 

Don't ask don't tell.