Just thought I'd see what some of you other guys think. Lets say you meet a girl you want to have a relationship with (i.e., dating, not just a one-night stand, etc) and she's 28, and somehow you end up on the topic of "how many guys have you slept with?" At what number or higher would it start to bother you? Higher than 5? 10? 20?

I mean, in this day and age, I'm not expecting a virgin at 28, but still... in YOUR opinion, how many would it take for you to not be able to ignore it?

 

1, but then again my wife and I were virgins on our wedding day.

 

I wouldn't ask the question because you will never like the answer. On the other side of the coin, I have had a virgin before and it was incredibly boring and never was good. Just try to judge her by her personality..is she nice and good cook, good around the house, etc? If she is a giver, than she might be worth it, but if she is a pain in the A$$, dont even waste your time. 5, 10, and 20 really arent numbers that are high in this day and age, but something like 30, 40, 50 wouldn't be very good. In the end, its always a bad subject to talk about. I figure if you get her tested for everything and make sure she isn't known as a hoe (pride factor), go for it.

 

It depends. I'd be most concerned if she's had sex with a lot of guys recently, as in the past 6 mos.-year and a half or so.

 

It depends on why it's important to you. Are you afraid she might be more sexually experienced, or the fact that she might have more to compare you to. Or are you just afraid she might have caught something. Pick one and the solution is simple. If it's your insecurity than you'll need to work on that. Otherwise just have her tested. Hit it and you'll know if she's loose.

 

does it matter how many guys or how many times?

 

No, I know what's important to me already.

I was just wondering about what YOU guys think.

Gotrice, so it wouldn't bug you if your 28 y/o lady friend had been w/20+ guys? Damn. I'm a prude I guess.

 

I don't ask because it almost always ends up in an argument of some sort. As long as she is being faithful to me once we're together, I don't care how many guys she was with before me.

 

I don't really care, I'm not interested in who/what/how many she's dated.
For the time being she's with you, treat it as such and it may become something bigger.

 

[QUOTE=mysteryville,Oct 9 2007, 11:53 AM] Gotrice, so it wouldn't bug you if your 28 y/o lady friend had been w/20+ guys?