[QUOTE]Originally posted by AP1_rock
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www.askmen.com You're now a challenge. You should still be nice to the other girls, your new main squeeze will almost certaintly be on her guard but will find you more attractive since other women find you desirable. "he must be a good catch" This doesn't mean you should be inconsiderate or disrespectful to the girl you're dating. In fact quite the opposite! You should give your girl the majority of your attention but still talk to others. Don't ignore them or brush them off, that would make you seem rude and you don't want the new girl thinking your a rude guy. Be a constant gentalman, you never know what the future will be like so don't burn bridges by getting snappy with the others. Don't anticipate that any of these other girls want to be with you either. That can be a disaster. Once you're single again you'll probably find yourself in the just one of the guys category.

 

thats well said

 

 

Thanks! I try.

 

I think women are surprisingly simular to men. Like billy crystal said you pretty much want to do the ugly ones to, but to a woman it's not about having sex as being wanted to have sex with (or in other word be desireable by any man). Why not don't we all want to be desired? Women are selective with sex, so substitute sex with the word desire when speaking the woman lingo. You'll find that it's mostly the passion that a man conveys to a woman during sex that is most pleasurable for her (most of the time). Don't get me wrong they still want the pleasure of sex but the admiration, passion, priority that you show them is what makes them smile and feel "complete".

 

OMG wow that is soo true. I was just thinking about it, and you nailed it

 

 

Thanks, It's really not that hard to understand. Guys just don't tend to think about it. Honestly it took me about 28+ years to figure it all out. Around that time I was doing well but I just thought it was my tounge LOL (oh there i go being a typical one track minded guy again) but the best relationship I've ever had was one where I realized how important it is to be consious of what my girlfriend really wanted/needed from me. It's not easy to deliver all the time because well we're guys and we just don't think, scratch that, feel like a woman, we tend to think (problem solve) instead. Hard to break old habits that are ingrained into sociaty but it's about time. Men still need to be men we just have to learn to understand women better.

 

Maybe it's this simple: The girls just don't like your girlfriend.
Think about it. May be that simple, uncomplicated, nothing to figure out.