The good ones are always taken...
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The good ones are always taken...
I really can't stand when this happens. Today I asked this girl out that I've been having mild banter with for a while. All seemed to be going very well over the course of the banter and all, so I figured I'd just get on with it and ask the girl out. I'm usually not the one to do this 'cause I've always been a big p*ssy when it comes to dating, but this time I finally got up off my ass and made a move.
So I catch her when she's alone for a minute and while I'm walking with her I say, "Hey I was thinking it'd be nice if you and I grabbed a cup of coffee or something later...." (blah blah blah blah) And sure enough, she's had a boyfriend for two years and she's nothing but smiles when she mentions him. I say, "Oh man, what a bust...well that's cool...I guess I'll just see you later then... " and I bounce.
The bust is obviously the boyfriend, but this girl is one of those types of people you want to see happy forever, even if you don't fit into their happiness the way you'd like. I've got a friend who's got amazing chemistry with his girl...and for all I know...this girl could have the same with her boyfriend. Who am I to get in the way of that??
But all niceness aside...fact remains that I think she's great, haven't met anyone like her before and would've loved to get to know her better...but I can't. And I can't even be all that annoyed by it.
So I catch her when she's alone for a minute and while I'm walking with her I say, "Hey I was thinking it'd be nice if you and I grabbed a cup of coffee or something later...." (blah blah blah blah) And sure enough, she's had a boyfriend for two years and she's nothing but smiles when she mentions him. I say, "Oh man, what a bust...well that's cool...I guess I'll just see you later then... " and I bounce.
The bust is obviously the boyfriend, but this girl is one of those types of people you want to see happy forever, even if you don't fit into their happiness the way you'd like. I've got a friend who's got amazing chemistry with his girl...and for all I know...this girl could have the same with her boyfriend. Who am I to get in the way of that??
But all niceness aside...fact remains that I think she's great, haven't met anyone like her before and would've loved to get to know her better...but I can't. And I can't even be all that annoyed by it.
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From: LA
i use to work at a chinesse restaurant delievering food. after delievering to a customer i asked if i could have her number. she mention that she was married. i was in complete shame. but she mention that if i wanted to call her and just hang out as friends it was okay.
i guess you cant be to scared to take chances.
i guess you cant be to scared to take chances.
