help settle a bet
2 guys. old friends.
1 guy owns his own business (guy1)
1 guy works a full time job (guy2)
guy1 needs help with his store and asks guy2 to pitch in with some organizing and bringing guy1 food since guy1 can't leave his store.
guy1 often is unhappy that guy2 can't get him food exactly when he wants it. guy2 tries to get him food when he can, but he is often busy with his own work/life. guy2 often says that he is not sure when he can deliver the food and tells guy1 not to wait for him. guy1 often chooses to wait, then complains anyway.
does guy1 have a right to be angry with guy2 or should he just be glad that guy2 is willing to help?
and yes, it is a gay love story, yadda yadda yadda.
1 guy owns his own business (guy1)
1 guy works a full time job (guy2)
guy1 needs help with his store and asks guy2 to pitch in with some organizing and bringing guy1 food since guy1 can't leave his store.
guy1 often is unhappy that guy2 can't get him food exactly when he wants it. guy2 tries to get him food when he can, but he is often busy with his own work/life. guy2 often says that he is not sure when he can deliver the food and tells guy1 not to wait for him. guy1 often chooses to wait, then complains anyway.
does guy1 have a right to be angry with guy2 or should he just be glad that guy2 is willing to help?
and yes, it is a gay love story, yadda yadda yadda.
guy 2 offered to help one shift a week
guy 2 spends most of the shift surfing the net, watching movies and iming friends
guy 2 has no set hours and comes whenever he feels like it
guy 2 treated job with equal apathy when it was his full time job
guy 1 simply wants to know when the other guy is coming so that he knows whether to order from another place
guy 2 spends most of the shift surfing the net, watching movies and iming friends
guy 2 has no set hours and comes whenever he feels like it
guy 2 treated job with equal apathy when it was his full time job
guy 1 simply wants to know when the other guy is coming so that he knows whether to order from another place
If Guy 2 is taking time out of his day to help you out, I think that you should just have patients and wait for him to have the time to do it... Since, he never really had to ask in the first place
He was nice enough to offer, and for free... no need to get stingy on why he doesn't do it on your time, right?
He was nice enough to offer, and for free... no need to get stingy on why he doesn't do it on your time, right?
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Originally Posted by Mr. Eryozgatliyan,May 20 2009, 04:04 PM
If Guy 2 is taking time out of his day to help you out, I think that you should just have patients and wait for him to have the time to do it... Since, he never really had to ask in the first place
He was nice enough to offer, and for free... no need to get stingy on why he doesn't do it on your time, right?
He was nice enough to offer, and for free... no need to get stingy on why he doesn't do it on your time, right?

although of course it is generous of that friend to take time to help out from his difficult 30 hour a week schedule that he is allowed to work only four days a week
you would be cool with that guy showing up whenever he felt like it rather than committing to a specific time so that you could take a dinner break?
let me be clear here...the times that guy 1 got mad were only when guy 2 committed to a time and then showed up a few hours later
guy 1 never was upset when guy 2 didn't commit to a time
Originally Posted by Mr. Eryozgatliyan,May 20 2009, 04:04 PM
If Guy 2 is taking time out of his day to help you out, I think that you should just have patients and wait for him to have the time to do it... Since, he never really had to ask in the first place
He was nice enough to offer, and for free... no need to get stingy on why he doesn't do it on your time, right?
He was nice enough to offer, and for free... no need to get stingy on why he doesn't do it on your time, right?

granted it isn't much money...but it's fair market price for the job









