how to get point across to guy
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well, if you can manage a way to hit every once in a while with out being hooked to a chain and ball, err, i mean relationship, you've struck gold. ideal situation is to have 5 chicks that wanna hook up now and then without you ever having to be the slave/boyfriend.
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From: USSA
Originally Posted by JettaGT,Sep 14 2007, 05:40 AM
ok...so not to start another relationship thread but my gf and i recently broke up but we are still talking/seeing eachother about once a week...she goes to school about 2 hours away...super sweet girl and has nice guy friends...EXCEPT..and as expected..one is always trying to get with her...im up here this weekend and one of the guys i have always been cool with..i can tell by the way he acts that he has some rather dubious intentions...not that i wouldnt be doing the same thing if the situation were reversed..but how do i get the point across that he should maybe lay off until we figure things out for good...i dont want to be a dick but at the same time i dont want him sabotaging whats left of our relationship...i welcome serious and funny advice..thanks all 
As for your situation, I think everyone here stated their opinions rather well and you should heed their advice. You are no longer her BF. You are in the friend zone from what I see. And when you are in the friend zone....she no longer needs your skin flute.
Not only that...being 2 hours away...wow...you know how many guys she could be banging in the time period it takes for you to get there?!?!?!
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Originally Posted by GPMike,Sep 14 2007, 09:07 PM
You are no longer her BF. You are in the friend zone from what I see. And when you are in the friend zone....she no longer needs your skin flute.
You have "the return hand stamp" (think a la Disneyland). . .
Here's the thing though: she'll come back to you when there's no one else familiar and/or nearby to do her dirty work. That's cool (IMHO), the thing is, you must make it abundantly clear that:
1. You're doing her a favor by doing her. It's okay to be Boy Scout in this instance. Do your thing, then let it go.
2. You will be doing her on your terms.
3. Make it clear she's completely expendible. In fact, watch your hours that you're with her: keep it short, keep it sweet, and keep the hours as convenient for you, and as inconvenient for her. She's coming into town for the weeknd? Great! You'll be out with the guys until midnight, meet for a couple of drinks, and close the deal wherever she's staying. . .
. . . bonus point if you go to her place with 3 phone numbers in your pocket for the week after. . .
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Originally Posted by JettaGT,Sep 14 2007, 05:40 AM
my gf and i recently broke up
Don't be a shmuck and think that you have rights anymore... move on. You only stand to look stupid.
Enough said....
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Originally Posted by gotrice02,Sep 14 2007, 06:04 AM
How many of these retarded threads do we have to read. They are all the same....let me give you a hint, don't date chicks with a ton of guys friends. Always assume these three things, any guys that are "friends" with a chick either want to Fuk her, have tried to Fuk her, or have Fuked her. I don't understand why guys trick themselves into believing that platonic guy and girl relationships work, because they don't. The bullsh1t "friend" relationships on TV like on the shows "Friends" and "My Boys" don't exist because they are made up. You can guarantee that if a women is attractive, all guys are going to want to Fuk her. Personally, I never took women with tons of guy "friends" seriously. This is because I am a guy and I know how guys think, so whats the point of putting myself through the misery that so many women put men through. Your only way to combat this is to hang out with alot of chicks. The problem with this is, chicks are fuking boring to just "hang out" with (they don't typically like sports, guy talk, etc.). So, my friend, it is a double-edged sword and my advice is to move on. First and foremost, you shouldn't have to work hard to "win-over" a chick, if the whole process isn't easy and enjoyable, she is definately not worth it.
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yeah yeah...i know shes fair game and i have no rights...im not trying to "keep her"...we broke up for a reason..but im getting some from her so i still have a personal interest in seeing that some dude doesnt f that up right now...mainly im concerned because i still have feelings for her...it will probably change in the near future but hey. we actually went out last night and he was there...a well timed kiss to the neck went over pretty well
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Originally Posted by JettaGT,Sep 15 2007, 10:27 AM
yeah yeah...i know shes fair game and i have no rights...im not trying to "keep her"...we broke up for a reason..but im getting some from her so i still have a personal interest in seeing that some dude doesnt f that up right now...mainly im concerned because i still have feelings for her...it will probably change in the near future but hey. we actually went out last night and he was there...a well timed kiss to the neck went over pretty well
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Originally Posted by GPMike,Sep 15 2007, 11:13 AM
Kisses to the neck usually part a girl's legs like Moses parted the seas (at least 75% of the time I find....this is a good tip for you young bucks.)
it's the rare girl that doesn't absolutely love this
