Alright had a recent discussion with my girl and I found out she has had sex with 5 different guys in the last 2 years(she is 17 BTW), now I've been with two girls one was a virgin the other had been with one guy and a few of my girl friends have told me usually 1 or 2 guys is all they've been with.


So my girlfriend asked me if I thought she was a slut and I said I really don't know and I feel kinda disappointed that she has been with so many guys as she intially told me she was a virgin cause she didn't feel comfortable enough with me at the time.

I'm not really disapointed cause she isn't birgin...its just more of the fact that she has been with so many guys at such a young age...heck I was 19 when I first had sex and haver only been with 2 in the past 3 years.


I just feel really bummed out about it and can't seem to shake this funk.

 

Yes, she is a slut.







have a nice day.

 

sorry dude, i sympathize. it's not like u were planning to marry her right?

but try turning any guilt on her part into something positive for you.

 

Nah, we've been together since April.


Just some of the things she says really bother me, like when we first decided to stay comitted to each other...like 2 days later she stayed at her ex-boyfriends house in the same room cause she was too drunk to drive home(her friend dragged her to his house for a party).

plus she thinks its ok to hang out and drink with others guys alone without telling me.


Maybe its time to end it....my sisters best friend just came back from college and I've always had a thing for her since I was like 10.

 

Well hey, maybe your girl's into sex as well as many other guys are. Was she together with the 5 other guys at the time (while not at the same time) or was it just one night stands? You are right though that it is dissapointing to hear that she lied to you from the start. At least she could've stated that she was uncomfortable telling you.

 

she regrets 4 outta the 5 times...one of the guys she was dating the rest were sweet talkers who got to her while she was drunk.

 

it's a lost situation. just enjoy it as long as it's good for you.

 

^Agreed. Don't stay attached and let her go.

 

first you said she likes drinking with guys when you're not around.
then you said she was played 4 times while she was drunk.
i'm sorry man, but i felt bad for you up until that point.
its really all on you if she screws you over cause you pretty much know its coming.
she's obviously not at a point where she is ready to settle down, so don't get too comfy.
enjoy

 

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