The "L" word is love.
Here's the deal. I've known her since late December of 2002. We became very good friends over summer of 2003. Beginning of Fall semester, She came to a 311 concert with me... Last minute thing for her (August 23). That's when we officially started "dating". Now it's September 9th. We cannot spend enough time together, and I know we're both on the same level as far as that is concerned. I've only told one girl in the past that I loved her, and the girl in question knows how I feel about just tossing that word around.
I feel that I can tell her, but I don't want her to think I have ulterior motives (If you know what I mean).

Advice, comments, flames, etc... Are all welcome.
Thanks,
Incubus.

 

I don't think that there is a time limit on this .......

I told my last girlfriend that I loved her after only a few weeks of dating ..... It just felt right ...... that was 11 years ago now, and we have been married for 6 of them .....

 

If you are in love, you're in love.. time don't make much of a differance

 

i agree...do what feels right.

 

I would join this thread but I'm afraid to get flamed since I'm so young.

 

3 months, 4 days, 22 hours, 17 minutes, and 23 seconds sounds about right to me...

No really, if its right, its right, just say it, don't try and hide your true emotions

 

She went to the 311 concert with you. You've felt the bond of listening to "F*ck the Bull$hit" and "Who's Got the Herb" together... Tell her! j/k (Seriously, I dont think there is a time limit on this kind of thing. If you love her, tell her.)

311 rules!

 

Life is too short. So say "I Love You" as soon as possible!

 

After you say the L word to her once, it becomes second nature and won't be uncomfortable anymore. Well, do you really love her?? If you do, then say it

 

Yay! Now I just have to wait for the right time. I think I'm also concerned about her not having the same feelings. Like I'll get a thank you. I'll keep you guys posted.
Thanks.