so ing painful after i found that my ex gf had an another bf before we broke up.
i fell in love with this girl and i ve known and been together with her for more than 1000 days which is pretty long ass time for me. she is a real god person imo(i still can say) since everytime we were together, she was always true and sincere to me and theres no way that i i cant love her. but for some reasons, things have been different since i moved down to San Diego for school. actually before i left the Bay Area, we both kinda prepared for some predictable upcoming happening that we could possibly break up in near future. but not seriously...a few weeks ago, as i checked up my email box and found that theres this girls message and i got a feeling of uneasiness according to its title. i clicked on that and fck...things just went in a way that we both expected. damn... that was so harsh. and i was like oh well...yeah this is how we should be and i just hope she does cool in school and could possibly meet some other smart dude at her school and shit. cuz she sometimes talks down on my school and thinks her school(UC Berkeley) is always superior to mine. yeah it is for some programs but not all...anyways...

so for me things been just normal and smooth having lotta fun with hot girls from my sister sorority. the day before yesterday, i was just sitting like a duck in front of my computer doing this and that. got bored and began to check on the Xangas. oh shit...my ex made her page and posted a heck of pix already...as i scrolled down, i got to see these mofocking pics of her new boy. WHAT THE ...with some suspicious curiousities, i looked at the date and each pics descriptions and they all turned outta be sometime before she and i broke up. now its hard for me to get over it even if we already broke up. i mean how should i control myself with this. i know i will be fine sooner or later but i cant stand right now.
how would u guys deal with this, if u were on my situation?

 

I dunno what to tell ya, but the way I got over it was not think about it and just try to have fun, we're still young arent we

 

This isn't easy to hear when you are young and in love but more than half of the world's population are women. Now go get em'

 

similar shiiznit happend to me. fk her man. do better.

 

Life is too short to dwell on this..........Move on!

 

It isn't easy to deal with these emotions and they happen to everyone and you will experience this some more in your life but everytime you go through the process you take something with you and it becomes more acceptable.
I am going through a break up now and let me tell you that it still sucks ass but I am much better off than I was as a teenager - my priorities have shifted and I realize the Sun still rises and sets and I will be knee deep in Booty before I know it!

You sound like a smart kid, just hang in there - it gets easier!!!!

 

move on....

1) depending on major... UCB isn't anything more than UCSD, and anyone who picked UCB over UCSD so they could rag on another UC is just lame
2) better sooner than later that you broke up, bummer she's not someone you are going to be able to trust as a friend
3) long distance relationships are difficult to start, maintaining them is even harder
4) she broke up with you via email? how LAME is that?
5) keep all this stuff in mind if you ever talk/see her again

 

thanks guys....im getting better tho..but still cant believe this sh!t.
oh well........thx again for all yall encouragements....think its time to get myself straight up.

 

You can totally do better. Do you believe in Karma?

Just smile and move on. You have a WHOLE sorority to be having fun with. Think of the possibilities.

 

Go take a drive...a little will cure all!