how would you deal with this sh!t?
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Originally posted by 2002silver
so
ing painful after i found that my ex gf had an another bf before we broke up.
i fell in love with this girl and i ve known and been together with her for more than 1000 days which is pretty long ass time for me. she is a real god person imo(i still can say) since everytime we were together, she was always true and sincere to me and theres no way that i i cant love her. but for some reasons, things have been different since i moved down to San Diego for school. actually before i left the Bay Area, we both kinda prepared for some predictable upcoming happening that we could possibly break up in near future. but not seriously...a few weeks ago, as i checked up my email box and found that theres this girls message and i got a feeling of uneasiness according to its title. i clicked on that and fck...things just went in a way that we both expected. damn... that was so harsh. and i was like oh well...yeah this is how we should be and i just hope she does cool in school and could possibly meet some other smart dude at her school and shit. cuz she sometimes talks down on my school and thinks her school(UC Berkeley) is always superior to mine. yeah it is for some programs but not all...anyways...
so for me things been just normal and smooth having lotta fun with hot girls from my sister sorority. the day before yesterday, i was just sitting like a duck in front of my computer doing this and that. got bored and began to check on the Xangas. oh shit...my ex made her page and posted a heck of pix already...as i scrolled down, i got to see these mofocking pics of her new boy. WHAT THE...with some suspicious curiousities, i looked at the date and each pics descriptions and they all turned outta be sometime before she and i broke up. now its hard for me to get over it even if we already broke up. i mean how should i control myself with this. i know i will be fine sooner or later but i cant stand right now.
how would u guys deal with this, if u were on my situation?
so
ing painful after i found that my ex gf had an another bf before we broke up.i fell in love with this girl and i ve known and been together with her for more than 1000 days which is pretty long ass time for me. she is a real god person imo(i still can say) since everytime we were together, she was always true and sincere to me and theres no way that i i cant love her. but for some reasons, things have been different since i moved down to San Diego for school. actually before i left the Bay Area, we both kinda prepared for some predictable upcoming happening that we could possibly break up in near future. but not seriously...a few weeks ago, as i checked up my email box and found that theres this girls message and i got a feeling of uneasiness according to its title. i clicked on that and fck...things just went in a way that we both expected. damn... that was so harsh. and i was like oh well...yeah this is how we should be and i just hope she does cool in school and could possibly meet some other smart dude at her school and shit. cuz she sometimes talks down on my school and thinks her school(UC Berkeley) is always superior to mine. yeah it is for some programs but not all...anyways...
so for me things been just normal and smooth having lotta fun with hot girls from my sister sorority. the day before yesterday, i was just sitting like a duck in front of my computer doing this and that. got bored and began to check on the Xangas. oh shit...my ex made her page and posted a heck of pix already...as i scrolled down, i got to see these mofocking pics of her new boy. WHAT THE
...with some suspicious curiousities, i looked at the date and each pics descriptions and they all turned outta be sometime before she and i broke up. now its hard for me to get over it even if we already broke up. i mean how should i control myself with this. i know i will be fine sooner or later but i cant stand right now.how would u guys deal with this, if u were on my situation?
It looks like it wasn't meant to be, which is fine because you're young and it's apparent that she's not much of a long-term type of girlfriend either. You can do better than some intellectually stuck-up girl susceptible to cheating. Or at least a girl better at it than her (pictures on her XANGA!!! Gadzooks that's a dumb move, unless she doesn't care about you or anyone else that knows or would know). For a Cal girl, she's not very smart. Which segways into part two: I hate UC snobs. Especially Berkeley and LA snobs. At least you're taking a big plunge in moving down here into completely new surroundings. Besides, it sounds like you're having fun in San Diego anyway.
Ok, I think I'm done.
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From: soopasoak dat hoe.
damn jun... sorry to hear that man... but honestly... no matter how good the relationship was... jus remember the good times you had from it.. and move on..
you can't force someone to love you... if she decided to see someone else, then thats all her man.. you did the right thing by not cheating on her... but either way... thats not the kind of girl you want to be with...
Look at it like this... even if she said sorry and told you she wanted to be with you again... she probably would do it again... i mean.. its messed up... but if my gf ever cheated on me... i would never take her back.. period. same goes for me if I did that to her... its not worth getting mad over dude.. plus long distance usually doesn't turn out well... so its better now, since you just recently moved down there... then you finding out 3 years from now doing long distance... now THAT would suck.
stay up bro
you can't force someone to love you... if she decided to see someone else, then thats all her man.. you did the right thing by not cheating on her... but either way... thats not the kind of girl you want to be with...
Look at it like this... even if she said sorry and told you she wanted to be with you again... she probably would do it again... i mean.. its messed up... but if my gf ever cheated on me... i would never take her back.. period. same goes for me if I did that to her... its not worth getting mad over dude.. plus long distance usually doesn't turn out well... so its better now, since you just recently moved down there... then you finding out 3 years from now doing long distance... now THAT would suck.
stay up bro
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From: socal
If it is meant to be, she'll be back, In school me and my girl split for some time apart , then I got my shiet together and we are now married with a kid. It will all work out, you are wayy to young, but it still hurts when this shit happens, She is just doing the school go wild crap and it will be over soon.
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Ya beat me to it MAtt.
She either did not take the relationship as serious as you or she is just imature and needs time to grow up.
You are young and have a bad ass car. You should not be in your head so much. Go out pick up some girls and show them a good time. Have fun and go out with as many chicks as possible.
Im not saying whore it out or anything, there may just be a girl that diserves your time more than this cheatin *****.
If you need help getting over this chick just keep yourself busy. Go out be more active, start a new work out routine. Go running at night or durring the day. Party more!!!!!
- The Monk
She either did not take the relationship as serious as you or she is just imature and needs time to grow up.
You are young and have a bad ass car. You should not be in your head so much. Go out pick up some girls and show them a good time. Have fun and go out with as many chicks as possible.
Im not saying whore it out or anything, there may just be a girl that diserves your time more than this cheatin *****.
If you need help getting over this chick just keep yourself busy. Go out be more active, start a new work out routine. Go running at night or durring the day. Party more!!!!!
- The Monk