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It's better to give than recieve

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Old Sep 6, 2007 | 08:18 AM
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lol. this is kinda of funny to me since i would quickly buy my family members anything they want(that i could afford), then when it comes for me to buy something for my self; it takes a couple of hours sometimes a day to convince myself to buy it.
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Old Sep 6, 2007 | 09:04 AM
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Originally Posted by quickshifting,Sep 5 2007, 02:51 PM
what i really want...people cant afford.

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Old Sep 6, 2007 | 09:35 AM
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I buying gifts for people. It's a creativity challenge for me. On the other hand, I was raised to be very independent, so it's still sometimes awkward receiving gifts...I said sometimes.
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Old Sep 6, 2007 | 09:39 AM
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When it comes to gifts, I get satisfaction from both. However, outside of material things I don't know if anything beats genuinely helping someone unsolicited and getting a "thank you" in return.
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Old Sep 6, 2007 | 10:23 AM
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I like both ways.

Have to consider that the person giving you a gift is going to feel good if you like it and appreciate it, so in a sense, you are giving them something in return anyway.
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Old Sep 6, 2007 | 01:29 PM
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in all honesty, i have rarely received a gift that i really liked. so it ends up being a burden trying to show appreciation to the person who gave it.

giving is nearly the most pure, close to altruistic action you can take, so it's hard to find fault with it. unless it's the tax evading kind of charity.

i only wish i had the ability to give more.
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Old Sep 6, 2007 | 01:47 PM
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I agree with everyone in here. Also, sometimes the best things in life you can give are free.
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Old Sep 6, 2007 | 05:02 PM
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Yes, giving is precious, especially for a good cause (see my signature). I think I've given to children's charities more than all of you COMBINED, but that's just my assumption. But I don't think I'm far off because I think most of you are cheap, selfish bastards.
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Old Sep 6, 2007 | 05:57 PM
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When I was little I always loved to recieve gifts (what kid didn't?!) but now as I have matured, I much prefer giving then recieving. I look forward to my gfs bday / xmas to give my gift, whatever it may be.
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