I'll probably come across as being a real d*ckhead but did he actually cheat? or are you suspecting that he did because you rang him at 3am and some girl answered the phone and you are now not giving him the opportunity to explain the situation to you?

anyway whatever happens, good luck.

 

sweetheart, you can't love a guy who does these things. or at least he doesn't love you if he did this. simple as that.

 

Hon, do not, under any circumstances MARRY him!! thats nuts. Your family is right, you really should end it because who knows what is going on down in Atlanta and for how long. You may have found out about this incident but what if there have been others he has gotten away with?



throw him to the side and find another.


there is someone else out there for u...let fate take its course. If you love someone you NEVER cheat on them ever. No matter what reason he may concoct,its all a load of crap. and you are better than that....



good luck hon

 

I know exactly how you feel. I had the same problem (with a girl) just a few weeks ago. I had to make a decision. A lot of pain now or a lot more pain later It was one of the hardest decisions I've ever made because I really loved her but I couldn't put myself, family, or friends through that again. I had to keep saying to myself that if she really cared for me she would never do anything like that. The pain is still there but it subsides more each day. It just takes time. I think you know what you need to do. It took me awhile to decide but I knew I could never trust her again and there was no way I could be with someone I didn't trust.

I hope you feel better. Get together with your friends, do anything to keep your mind off it. I think I put more miles on my S2k in a few weeks than I usually do in a few months but it helped And then there is always The Corner

 

The distance will make it easier. Don't waste your time on a cheater! It always hurts alot at first, but you have the pleasure of not having to see him all the time. Time heals all wounds!

 

Made my decision today. It's over. I know I can't trust him again. I will be ok. I have plenty of support from my family, friends, and friends here on s2ki. This whole situation is a lesson... Long distance relationships are really hard to make "work"

Life goes on...

 

Sorry, I know you can do it.


I also know it's got to be hard.

Just don't give in and go back to him.

 

This is KEY!!

 

True,
I can say it, but it's so hard to follow my own advice.

I asked so many people for advice thinking that one, at least one person, would give me an answer that i liked. They all said the same thing.

I knew what my own advice was, but it is hard to accept.

 

IMO, everyone on this site is great. We have all been going thru some life-shattering issues with our significant others. Personally, I think its the other person's fault...in fact I KNOW

Does everyone agree? we are just a terrific group with impeccable taste in cars and some cannot understand!!



And lIveitup...good for u honey...dont let him step all over u like that...move on!