You did the right thing by getting rid of him. You are worth more than that and deserve better. People won't take advantage of you if you don't let them. You have to watch out for your health also. How could you ever stop thinking about it? You won't. It'll never be good again so you did the right thing. Move on. Not all men are bad but we are wired that way. For some reason, we have to go there before we understand how much and many people that this kind of behavior hurts. Oh well. Good luck and hold out for what you deserve.

 

No one deserves a second chance, ever. They broke a trust that can never be repaired.

 

[QUOTE]Originally posted by ltweintz
[B]No one deserves a second chance, ever.

 

thanks everyone. i'm doing a lot better. keeping myself busy and going out with my friends. it also helps that i'm not within his reach. =)

 

Just because you get married doesn't mean things will get better.

A girl I used to date cheated on me and I ended it. She called me up 3 weeks before she got married and wanted to go out again. I said no. A week after she got married, she called me up wanted to see me again. Amazing...

Good to see you made the right choice, once a cheater, you'll never be able to trust them again.