Any pics?

 

lol i agree, any pics??

 

From my own experience, I would and did and break it off with the ex. They are not worth it. It was extremely hard to do so and it took me a year and a half to let the ex go. But once I did, I did go through a little down time but I came to learn that things happen when you're not expecting them to. Girls will always come by, whether it takes a few weeks or a few months, there will always be a girl interested. Right now, for you, it's this new girl. And here I am... 4 girls later, and I'm dating someone new and so far, it's going good. If she makes you happy, then think about the present and not what could POSSIBLY HAPPEN in the future. It's too much of a risk to wait for the ex cause like someone said... she probably hasn't found anyone else better than you yet and she's keeping ties with you just incase she doesn't find anyone so that she could come back to you with no problem. So if you wait, and she doesn't come back, you'll be wasting your life on this selfish ex of yours... not worth it. Trust me... cause I got d*cked over for doing it.

Just continue with this new chick and forget about what your ex tells you. She's not near you and you really don't have any idea what's going on over there. If she really liked you, she wouldn't have broken up with you at all, no matter what. You can still date someone and have time to each other... it's all BS on her part and I wouldn't fall for it if I were you.

Stick with the new girl... trust me... or else you will regret it.

Andre

 

from the female perspective (an insight into the mystery of women..!)

She's keeping you hanging on babes, so that she can flirt around and have her fun, then settle down and play at suburban bliss with you when she's sure there aren't any better options out there.

It sounds well harsh I know (and it is), but at the end of the day if she truly cared for you then she wouldn't keep jerking your strings to keep you interested. As long as you remain even vaguely interested in her, she will keep you dancing to her tune. At the slightest hint of you finding anyone else and being happy, she'll come zooming back, giving you just enough encouragement to make you think there might be a future for the two of you if you just keep hanging on.

Girls like this are nasty, and certainly don't deserve decent blokes with a decent motor!! Cut the lines of communication and leave her to it. Let her play mind games with someone else. There are plenty of sane, sensible and hot women out there - with S's!

 

don't get too excited about the new girl. shes only too good to be true cuz shes new. eventually the newness'll wear off and you'll chill out. dont overload with commitment or anything... you're young son

 

 

I have this theory that when people break up they say they want to stay "friends" because neither are ready to completely let go. Remaining "friends" doesn't work out when one side has moved on and the other is still holding on.


I have to agree with everyone else who has suggested you cut ties with the ex. It's going to remain in limbo unless you are decisive about it. Don't torture yourself.

 

Break it off with both of them. You seem too immature to be in any relationship. Stop dickin around with the new girl, get over your ex. Figure out what the heck your problem is. Then start dating again.

 

Hey, everybody has their own opinion but your just ridiculous with that comment. I know im not immature to be in a relationship. Infact, I know im mature, a gentleman, and very caring and conservative when it comes to being in a relationship. The fact that i still care bout the ex is just emotions. Everyone has different ways of dealing with emotions but it doesnt mean that I dont know how to handle being in one.

 

Vin, I couldnt more agree with you there.