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Originally Posted by Mr.60trim,Jul 29 2010, 09:00 AM
I'm sorry, but this is real tacky to me lol. No way in hell as a (single young guy) would I be caught dead with another guy's baby, nor would I be seriously considering being involved with a single mother. Nope, not at that stage in my life...at 24? Seriously? Too much effort, not worth it.
When will some of you guys start realizing women are opportunist. They have guys lined up on reserve for various situations that may arise in their life. They organize it so well you would never know it. It's like science to them lol.
To the OP, my friend you're the "transition" guy. She knows her stock value has recently plummeted by having the kid, so in the mean time she's using you for her own self fulfilling purposes (i.e. having someone take her here & there, small talk, needing someone to make feel beautiful and appreciated yadda yadda yadda). Don't be a fool man. She friend-zoned you back in the day when her stock value was high, now all of a sudden things changed after she had the kid. Puh-lease lol
When will some of you guys start realizing women are opportunist. They have guys lined up on reserve for various situations that may arise in their life. They organize it so well you would never know it. It's like science to them lol.
To the OP, my friend you're the "transition" guy. She knows her stock value has recently plummeted by having the kid, so in the mean time she's using you for her own self fulfilling purposes (i.e. having someone take her here & there, small talk, needing someone to make feel beautiful and appreciated yadda yadda yadda). Don't be a fool man. She friend-zoned you back in the day when her stock value was high, now all of a sudden things changed after she had the kid. Puh-lease lol
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Ai-ya, speaking from a guy who recently lost his best friend to a single mom with a kiddie. I must say, it has changed him completely. He now talks about family, putting the family ahead of everything. He gives him his entire pay cheque to her. He says it's because she can handle his debt better. I wonder otherwise. But that's cool still. One thing that really struck me was when he plays with the kid, he refers himself as daddy. I guess at some point you have to assume that responsibility when you are the male figure the majority of the time.
Alls I can say is this, be prepared to call yourself a daddy in about 9 months time when the kid starts vocalizing. In the meantime, I hope you're okay with changing the diapers. Really understand what you are getting yourself into here. My friend basically have said that because they both work, the time they spend together without the baby is minimal and that takes a toll on any relationships.
I wouldn't say disregard what some have said about why she's suddenly turning her attention to you. They certainly have their validity. In regardless of her motives, make sure it's what you want at the end of the day. That way at least you're getting what you want out of the relationship and she's getting what she wants.
Alls I can say is this, be prepared to call yourself a daddy in about 9 months time when the kid starts vocalizing. In the meantime, I hope you're okay with changing the diapers. Really understand what you are getting yourself into here. My friend basically have said that because they both work, the time they spend together without the baby is minimal and that takes a toll on any relationships.
I wouldn't say disregard what some have said about why she's suddenly turning her attention to you. They certainly have their validity. In regardless of her motives, make sure it's what you want at the end of the day. That way at least you're getting what you want out of the relationship and she's getting what she wants.