man this chick ive been going out with for the past 5 years reall pisses me off. so i see her on friday and she goes home early cause she has stuff to do. fine thats ok. on saturday i am talking to her and she says she is getting ready to go. she logged off and didnt tell me where. she later tells me that she went clubbing with her friend and his gf cuz it was his birthday. so i told her on sunday we shouldnt be together.

a few things she does that pisses me off.
1. i let her use my residential parking permit cause i live close to school and she can get parking. so she parks infront of my apartment and goes to school. she just leaves when she is done. cant even come up and say hi. she said that she is tired and has stuff to do at home.

2. she doesnt stay over at my place. she use to stay over but now she said she has stuff to do at home and what not. i tell her i like it when she stays but she still doesnt.

3. its about 1 month past my birthday and she didnt get me a present yet. i told her what i want and she has just been lagging. i havent gotten her a present for hers but we know how girls are with gifts. very picky. i told her to tell me what she wants and ill get it. i admit this is slightly my fault.

4. she bakes food for my friends but barely does it for me. wtf is that?

she is full of crap. she said why cant i be nice and let her use my permit. i just say i want that crap back.

wow that made me feel better

 

Sound like this chick has another person in her life

sorry ...... time to cut bait and move on....

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Sounds like you're NOT actually going out with her. You THINK you are, but she's not doing a thing with you man.

Move on and find someone else.

You don't "go out" with someone for 5 years and have a relationship like this. You might be making more of it then there really is.

 

If this will make you feel better, the girl I been going out for three years is spending more time with her friends than me. Our phone conversation last for only couple of minutes. I know she's been avoiding me, I keep asking her if theres something wrong between us but she only gets annoyed about it. Oh yeah it's been three months since my birthday and I haven't received my present, not that I care but I always give her surprise gifts.

 

Doesn't sound like relationships at all... I have friends who I have better relationships then your GFs!!!

 

Unless your deeply inlove with her, id move on....

 

yeah, she's probably seeing someone else. she probably just hasn't officially broke it off with you cuz she wants to continue to have the benefit of using your parking permit.

 

You're exactly right..

1.) She is using you for the parking pass and treating you like absolute sh*t
2.) She is almost certainly boning another dude.... this is because chicks need action just as much as guys do. If she's not getting it from you, she is getting plowed by some other fraternity brother.
3.) Women never truly SAY what they want or what they are thinking, they use innuendo and signals to convey their messages...for example

- Using parking pass and not ever saying hi MEANS I don't like you anymore, but would like to continue taking advantage of this awesome parking.
- Going clubbing with another "couple" MEANS I don't like you anymore and I am choosing to go out with another couple in hopes of meeting guys to f*ck through my friend's boyfriend.
- Not getting you a birthday present MEANS I am trying to send you every message that I can that shows I'm not into you anymore without coming out and saying "I HATE YOU".

Seriously dude, ditch the bitch and enjoy single life. You need to get that parking pass back by the end of the week or you will promptly be inducted into the Hall of Shame and be forced to wear the stupid helmet like Eric Forman on that '70's Show. If you ask for the parking pass back and she refuses, report it stolen and specify who stole it from you. BE A MAN!!!!!!!!

 

y dont u kick the girl to the curb and lend your parking to pass to another girl =)

 

what do you expect when you don't get her a birthday present? You really think she should get you something when you got her nothing? WTF? How old are you, again? You get out of it what you put into it. She's not your girlfriend, she's just someone you kinda know at this point.