Told you she was getting plowed by another dude...she's probably been doing both of you guys....do i hear sloppy seconds???

 

do I sense some latent homosexual tendencies? Are you imagining what you would do once you got me down on the ground, with you on top? I'm gonna go out on a limb here, and guess you have used the "bros before hos" line more than once, and never thought about what you were actually saying, i.e. "quality" time with guys over girls. Sounds pretty damn gay to me. Not that there is anything wrong with that...

 

That's cold. If she didn't have anything to hide, she would have told you that she was gonna hang out with the dude.

Take care of business man!

 

if that was an attempted come back, I am sadly disappointed. You have to be a squatter.

 

I used to have a gf like that, I didn't want to believe it at first because I really did love her but I dropped her and now its all good with my new gf

 

[QUOTE=boyguan,Oct 8 2005, 09:42 AM]so ive found out that she has been hanging out with this friend that likes her.

 

If she had any shred of true respect for you as a human being, let alone bf or even as a guy friend, she would've told you up front about her hanging out with another dude. Pretty deceiving and conniving if you ask me.

.....RED FLAG #2........

 

Even if she told you up front that she's hangin' around with some other dude while she's still seeing you, are you positively, absolutely sure you're ok with it?? Esp. when you mentioned earlier that this guy's all over her?? Come on, don't kid yourself. Have a little more respect for yourself because if you don't, then who does? Certainly not this chick.

 

NO need to escalate further drama. It's already DONE. This girl's not worth your precious time and energy. Just be very very happy that she did you a huge favor of ending it so you can make room for someone better suited for you. This chick only wasted 5 years of your love life instead of the REST of your life . I know it's hard to resist to have the need to confront her now because you're pretty damn hurt and your ego bruised, but your best option (only option) now is to save your own grace and move on.

Once you regain your inner peace, you'll see that you'd done the right thing by walking away. Don't try to get your parking permit back, no need for revenge (karma will restore balance to the universe ). Just walk away my friend and don't ever look back. Remember to ALWAYS keep your chin up and DO THE RIGHT THING.

Good Luck.

Regards,
Bill


P.S. With the upmost respect for no_really as a knowledgeable car nut and fellow human being, I personally feel that his relationship advice doesn't suit your situation so please don't take his words seriously.