You sound like a nice guy and pretty mature for your age.

I'm sure you weren't perfect in the relationship but you did your fair share and if you were a bit protective, well she did cheat on you.

I'm sorry to say but she used you because you're a nice guy.
And as far as the theory she may be waiting for a guy she really loves and will do all the things you did for her, watch he's the one who will F her over, what goes around comes around, never fails, look at justin timberlake and britney, her cheating on him was the best thing to happen to him, his career took off when initially she was the more famous one, now she ends up shaving her head cuz some dumbass like k fed f'd her over.

Alot of girls I know and hear of have been doing stupid things in their relationships, i blame it on the whole women liberal crap that kicked off around 2000, i think it's fine and they are equal and i agree, but the whole cheating that men do it we can do it too has gone out of hand. Men were never as manipulative or cunning as alot of girls have become. When a man cheated it was clear why and when and simple. Women just take it to a whole extreme. Men just aren't as good as liars about women, we're simple, girls are complex and cover everything. Find yourself a good girl, she might not be as hot or sexy, but she will think the world of you and sacrifice for you like you sacrificed for the other cow.

You supported her and helped her through school and you took on the responsibility and now that she has her degree and is a career woman and wants to explore her options with other professionals because you were just their to get her through one step in life, she's onto another step.

You need to go back to school and back home if you have to and understand that you shouldn't give up your plans or goals for no woman.

Good luck to you.

 

After reading what you wrote I'd have to say, get far far far away from this girl.

It reads so badly.

1. She cheated on you (oacaac)
2. You put your life and future on hold for her (go back to school)
3. She is pushing you out of her life.

I think she's giving you the big HINT.

 

You sound like a married couple.

At some point you have to commit to a relationship, and that means taking the ups with the downs, the companionship with the restrictions, and accepting the other's faults and strengths. Thats what makes relationships work, and if she's moving out, she's not committing. I say time to move on, get back in school, and don't move in with a chick until you've dated her a year.

 

Here's the plan - stay single, get through school, get a job. Now you'll have money, independence, and the ability to live it up in your twenties. Go on lots of dates, sleep with lots of women.

When you hit 30, you'll have money and experience and will be able to tell the good girls from the losers and will be able to court and take care of the girl you want properly. Maybe then move in with her.

This is exactly right. Sleep with the hotties but never commit to them! Find a nice girl next door type who will devote herself to you and you'll be set. Start with a good girl, and plastic surgery can fix the rest.

 

whores that are cheaters are typically nympho sluts that love to fuk and are better in the sack....nothing wrong with that...'cept for the fact that you can't make a ho' a housewife.

 

i said i was a cheater... i never said i was a whore. and i already know what you're going to say to that. "cheating makes you a whore blah blah..." i'm not going to delve into the details and i don't think it's necessary for me to have to try and justify my actions to a guy on the internet. but i know what i am and i know what i'm not. it took balls to admit on a public forum that i'm cheater, but i did it because i felt sorry for the guy and i wanted him to be able to understand the type of girl his girlfriend is.

i tell my guy friends all the time that there are girls you ****, girls you date, and the girl you will marry. for each group your standards should become exponentially higher. i tell my guy friends that... but it's true for me too. one day i'll meet a guy and i won't cheat on him, i just haven't found anyone good enough yet. the 1st guy i cheated on, i didn't feel bad about it... the 2nd guy, yes i did it, but i felt guilty about it afterwards... now i'm just waiting for "mr. deserves to be treated like the amazing guy he truly is."

and what makes you think i'd want to be a housewife anyway?

 

being a cheater doesn't necessarily make you a whore. Being a whore is all about how a woman behaves OR if she is a hooker (true whore). Cheating on a guy and not feeling bad about it is rather callous and definately whore-like. So why should Mr. Perfect settle for a whorry girl who falls into the category of "girl that you fuk"?

 

I like this post.

 

you're 20....and you prolly slept with 20 guys by now.

cheater, ho, same thing.....

 

"Once a cheater, always a cheater" though, right?