C_unit, what is you magic number?

 

The real win comes when you don't need to **** the girls that are only 'good enough to ****'

Funny how ****ing has the least amount of required 'standards'. Silly girls that act similar to the story the OP gave is all I see lately, thats why I can **** them today and forget them tomorrow... the more you do it the easier it becomes... yet for everything there is a consequence.

 

Wow... this is such an amazing statement.

I think all the guys in the forum should adopt this motto to women, huh?

"I've cheated on girls before, but now I'm just waiting for a girl who deserves to be treated like an amazing person." (Instead of like a piece of trash?)



You were in a loving relationship with one guy, and you cheated on THREE separate occasions, yet you take umbrage with being called a whore because it "took balls" to admit it on a public forum? How's that saying go? If it looks like a duck... sounds like a duck...

Speaking of ducks, Junkie what's to become of your menagerie? Custody battle? Visitation rights? Did you guys sign a Dr. Doolittle pre-nup?

Seriously though, it sounds like you've gotten yourself in pretty deep with a history of making some unwise decisions. The good news is it's never too late to change that. I agree with everyone here who's telling you to get out, cut ties, and be happy that you can move on with your life. She doesn't sound like a winner OR a keeper, so don't look back. Just be glad you're realizing she's not the one right NOW, as opposed to 10 years from now.

 

yes... that seems to be true. like i said in my first post in this thread: "i do truly believe that i've only been a cheater because i haven't found anybody that i'm truly ready to settle down with." it might just be wishful thinking.

and gotrice... your last post was EXACTLY how i figured you'd respond to my post. "you're a whore... you cheat on guys... why would mr. right want a whore?" like i said, i know what i am and i know what i'm not. yes, i've cheated before (and as far as i can see, i never said that "cheating" constituted actually sleeping with the guy.) i haven't slept with 20 guys... not even close. and YES, mr. right will want me, first of all, because the fact that he wants me is a key element in him being mr. right obviously. second, i've NEVER had an issue with getting a guy to commit to me... my girlfriends are always wanting to know how i do it. i've always prided myself on the fact that i'm the type of girl you want to date, and the type of girl that you'd want your buddies and your mom to meet.

regardless of what YOU say about me, you only know me as a screen name on the internet... i know the type of girl i am, i have a lot of self respect, i'm smart and independent, i know what i want in life, when you talk to me - i will actually talk back and have something to say; and men pick up on that and treat me accordingly. you can call me a whore all you want and make cliche comments like "you can't turn a ho into a housewife." but just know that i've heard it all before, believe me...

i'm sure if some guy on this thread admitted to cheating on his girlfriend, you guys wouldn't all chime in with the character assasination... you probably wouldn't even give it a second thought. and if you did pay any attention at all, you'd all just joke around and post little avs that said "THIS THREAD IS WORTHLESS WITHOUT PICS!"

 

Stay on topic people please. Calling c-unit a whore is really uncalled for. I know where you are coming from and you call an orange an orange and a duck a duck, but really is that called for.

She admitted she's a cheater, and she's not calling herself a saint.

 

I never said you were a whore..obviously, I don't know you personally so I can't make that type of judgement. I simply believe that thoughtlessly cheating on a significant other is pretty reprehensible and whorish.

 

[QUOTE=s2000raj,Feb 20 2007, 02:10 PM] Stay on topic people please.

 

To the OP - 3 words: Time to go.

She cheated on you. You dropped out of school to support her life. She's having her dad buy you out of your lease to move into a place she never told you about. She gave you the biggest hint I've ever heard to move on.

Time to go.

and to gotrice02:

Before now, I laughed at your posts most of the time, but will no longer do so. I used to feel that your comments were more hyperbole than anything else, but wow - violence toward women? Definitely not funny.

 

Off topic is a forums based largely on opinion, is it not? There is nothing in this thread that is not approprate or not derived from a previous post stating a fact...gimme a break.

 

well it certainly wouldn't be the first time a guy has said something like that...

when i made that first post, i left the nitty-gritty details out of WHY i cheated on my first boyfriend because i didn't think it was necessary and i didn't want to bore the hell out of you guys with the details of my overly dramatic, immature, star-crossed, high school relationship. but if you read between the lines... i started dating the guy when i was FOURTEEN years old. he was the 1st guy i'd slept with... after about 3 years, we'd of course become completely different people, which happens when you date someone from the time you're 14 to the time you're 17-18. i TRIED to get out of the relationship, but i honestly COULDN'T. i lashed out at him, i wanted to meet new people, and know what it was like to date another guy, i wanted to know what else was out there. i was SEVENTEEN, can you blame me? and i was stupid, so i cheated. i kissed/made out with a couple guys, went out on dates with them and lied about where i was, YES i slept with ONE of them. (god... it's like i'm running for president or something.) i KNEW he was going to find out, but that didn't phase me because deep down inside i WANTED him to find out so he would just break up with me... but he didn't, he took me back. at first i thought i should be grateful that he took me back and try to work things out, and then we got engaged, but i quickly realized that even the fact that he forgave me didn't make me want him. i'm not mother theresa... but i said in my first post that it puzzled me as to WHY he would want me back, and why HE was working for MY affection. i knew what i did was wrong... you guys don't have to come down on me like the character police. he has a girlfriend now and she's just as crazy as he is, but they seem to work really well, and i bet he's glad that i was a bitch to him and finally broke it off cause now he has someone who actually likes him. all's well that ends well.

dude, i was 17 years old. i was stupid, i'm still stupid, i will be stupid for a long time. that's why i'm not getting married for a long time. at least i understand that about myself.

and my boyfriend now... it happened once, i feel terrible about it. it was a shitty time in our relationship. neither of us was there for each other like we should have been... i've done shitty things to him, he's done shitty things to me... but whatever , there's no justification for it so i'm not even going to try. i just know i'm never going to do it to him again.

i feel like i'm on trial, and we totally robbed this thread from the OP... could we just stop now? sheesh.