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Old Aug 25, 2006 | 08:06 AM
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No wonder I don't want to have kids.

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Old Aug 25, 2006 | 08:07 AM
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wow, i feel your pain man. My newborn just turned 3 months, luckily for me and my wife she sleeps the whole night and doesn't wake up til 8:30 the next day. When she was a couple weeks old, she would wake up twice a night, but only to eat, then back to sleep. Don't get the child use to riding in the car too much because she'll expect it in the middle of the night and you don't want to keep doing that every night with your 12 hr. shifts. Hang in their though, before you know it it'll be 3 months and thats when the baby starts to talk and smile and tends to sleep more which will make your job a little bit easier.
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Old Aug 25, 2006 | 08:23 AM
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http://www.lullabub.com/


Maybe that will help
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Old Aug 25, 2006 | 09:17 AM
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i wish i had a baaaaaaaaaaaabbbbbbbbyyyyyy! *sigh* but i'm not ready.

i have no advice to give... cause i have no clue how to handle children. but congratulations on your beautiful daughter! can't wait til i'm ready to have some lil rugrats of my own.
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Old Aug 25, 2006 | 09:22 AM
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Originally Posted by clayzS2k,Aug 25 2006, 12:07 PM
wow, i feel your pain man. My newborn just turned 3 months, luckily for me and my wife she sleeps the whole night and doesn't wake up til 8:30 the next day. When she was a couple weeks old, she would wake up twice a night, but only to eat, then back to sleep. Don't get the child use to riding in the car too much because she'll expect it in the middle of the night and you don't want to keep doing that every night with your 12 hr. shifts. Hang in their though, before you know it it'll be 3 months and thats when the baby starts to talk and smile and tends to sleep more which will make your job a little bit easier.
That's like my sister's daughter. After she was born she had to stay in the hospital for one month for surgeries, etc. and when my sis brought her home she was the best baby ever! Sleeps through the whole night and never, ever cries. I think it's because she probably had to learn to self soothe while in the hospital. :dunno:
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Old Aug 25, 2006 | 09:43 AM
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[QUOTE=bkw,Aug 25 2006, 09:52 AM] Have an interesting dilemma. Our daughter (4wks) is becoming more aware of her surroundings and is awake for other reasons rather than food and poo. She's get real fussy and when we would try to sooth, it wouldn
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Old Aug 25, 2006 | 09:57 AM
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Originally Posted by exceltoexcel,Aug 25 2006, 09:43 AM
Stop driving her around.

You have to let her cry when you know nothing is wrong with her, she's learning to be independent now. She cries, you check her out. You leave, she cries. You let her cry. She stops for a while, she cries, you check on her. She's fine, you leave her, let her cry. Keep doing that until she crys less and less and then not at all.

Oh yeah get a few parenting books. People assume it comes natural, it doesn't. Like everything you have to learn how to do it well.

Don't be stubborn and think you can figure it all out on your own.

You want an easy remedy that will settle her, try that rocker thing someone just posted. Put an electric fan on in her room blowing away from her. Set a radio to white noise or a tv to a non-station static filled channel (not cable jut the rabbit ears), but don't cater to her every moan and groan.

Of course you need to make sure nothing is amiss for the first one, but after that you should be able to understand when she's really in trouble and when she's just feeling lonely/cranky.
I think you're jumping to conclusions. He's already stated that he's tried numerous vibrating/rocking devices, and even seen the doctor about it (over concern that she is colic-y). I think asking a doctor for help trumps buying baby books, and besides that, he likely has several.
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Old Aug 25, 2006 | 10:03 AM
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Originally Posted by C_Unit,Aug 25 2006, 12:17 PM
i wish i had a baaaaaaaaaaaabbbbbbbbyyyyyy! *sigh* but i'm not ready.

i have no advice to give... cause i have no clue how to handle children. but congratulations on your beautiful daughter! can't wait til i'm ready to have some lil rugrats of my own.
It is alot of work and your Lifestyle changes immediately after that first night when you realize that the little bundle of joy needs everything 24 hours a day. My advice to people to wait until their early 30's to have children to REALLY settle down. Get all the traveling and all that stuff you want to do out of the way, because after you have children you live their life.
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Old Aug 25, 2006 | 10:06 AM
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Originally Posted by Will,Aug 25 2006, 01:57 PM
I think you're jumping to conclusions. He's already stated that he's tried numerous vibrating/rocking devices, and even seen the doctor about it (over concern that she is colic-y). I think asking a doctor for help trumps buying baby books, and besides that, he likely has several.
What did the doctor say?

Obviously nothing enlightening or else I doubt he'd ask for help here.

I'm not jumping to any conclusion, other than maybe he doesn't have parenting books.

Driving her around and catering to her every whim is going to unravel the poor guy.

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Old Aug 25, 2006 | 10:38 AM
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My daughter was always a sleepy kid. My parents still crack up when my 2 year comes up to me at 8pm and says "I tired, put me in bed"

My advice.. get them on a routine as early as you can. let them fuss/cry a little when they are little.
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