'Nice guy syndrome' can turn off some women
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Originally Posted by gosixers215,Apr 17 2009, 05:33 PM
Nothing wrong with being nice, just don't be a pushover from the get-go. That's weak and shows your balls have yet to drop IMO. You don't have to be an asshole, but assert yourself. I was always mostly "nice" to women I had an interest in, but always kept them off-guard with something. Being generally rough around the edges by nature doesn't hurt either.
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Originally Posted by tarheel91,Apr 17 2009, 07:26 PM
Being nice + attractive + funny will get you girls, but that can't be all that you are or it won't get you much further.
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Originally Posted by gosixers215,Apr 17 2009, 06:39 PM
Some dudes don't care for getting much further. In your early 20's, you can get by on two of the three. Most girls I know who met guys that were all three in that age range "weren't interested" (the guys, that is).
I was just speaking from personal experience. I've gotten every girl I've ever wanted, but I had issues making things last until I realized I needed to open up a bit and be a little more honest and frank sometimes. Being too nice kills personality, in my opinion.
Good times. Cali is off the wall though so who knows really.
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Being "too nice" is one thing. But running next to a train waiving at a girl til you cant keep up is just plain wierd...that would scare anyone off.
Here is what it boils down to, physical appearance, money, and emotional strength. THAT is what a woman is programmed to like, regardless of how nice you are.
Here is what it boils down to, physical appearance, money, and emotional strength. THAT is what a woman is programmed to like, regardless of how nice you are.
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Originally Posted by Backspin23,Apr 18 2009, 06:23 AM
I've seen some pretty ugly mofo's who looked dirt poor with some hot chicks.
It doesnt come down to ALL of those 3, but one or more of those 3.
