what ever happened to just... talking to girls.. i mean, that always worked for me, no head games or any of that BS

 

^^^ no kidding. i red "the game" good book. i followed every episode with the 1st serious of the pick up artist. this was seems really fake. got a few good laughs out of the other one and some good one liners.

personally i dont really want to **** a chick from the bar that i dont know... too afraid to catch an STD. and the ones id really like to get to konw and get personally with, lol i wouldnt meet at a bar..

the whole "peacock" thing does work though. but i think some of them take it a lil over board.

besides, usually playing headgames gets it in return, and there is wayyyyyy too many woman out there to deal with that bullshit

 

Talking to girls does work very well, but their is a slight game to picking up girls. The show just goes overboard though. Its not that complicated at all.

 

 

Ya he does have the good lesson at the end like alex said, but I like Tom Lykess's ideas. Chicks know the odds are definitely in their favor and idiots who put pussy on a pedistal are the ones screwing the odds because it gives the girs the "What can you do for me" attitude. But luckily i have a good one and just laugh at most bitches who approach me and expect I should give them something for nothing, gtfo ^^

 

from personal experience, the more a girl knows shes wanted the more she can use it as a tool, so reaching for these girls thats at the top of every man's pedestal requires good game.

normal and average girls don't get approached as often, so you require less skills then you would a "top notch" girl.


all these books are focused on reaching that top girl, which is why the material is similar. And of course, if it didn't work, maybe no1 would read them.

if it doesnt work for you personally, maybe you are doing something wrong.

Just like learning speech n debate so you are better at debating, learning "game" would be the analogy to creating a better form of you, while still being yourself. all you are learning is presentation, not pick up lines.

 

I never had any tricks to meet women and was slightly shy but did very well anyway.

Stand in bar/party, see girl you like, look over every few seconds, when she sees you looking grin like an idiot. Keep doing it. If they girl has interest she will finally come over and break the ice. If she is shy she will send the assertive friend over to talk to you first. Easy. If she thinks you look like a dork you don't have to make an ass out of yourself getting shot down.

When she finally comes up and says, Hey, why are you looking at me? Grin, blink at her a few times and say "Cause you are really cute." Non-treatening and the girl will hang around you all night wanting to hear more compliments. Then just be who you are. Listen and try to make them laugh a little.

Must have got at least 50 first dates that way. No work at all. Always smile, never try to look "sexy", look tough, or strike a pose. You will come off looking like Fabio and have girls laugh at you.

If you want to try a bunch of lame tricks you run the risk of looking like a cheeseball.

 

I can agree with your perspective there, but as guys any girl can be top notch with a good set of implants and some peroxide. And these bitches usually want what they cant have, 9 out of 10 times I have bagged these girls by picking fights with them then acting like I want absolutely nothing to do with them, and the more I do that the more they wanna argue and stay and talk. If you can get one of these girls to get in your face and get heated, then you know its easy game.

A wise man once told me, Love is the illusion that one pussy differs from another.

I dont agree with alot of these books because they are self defeating to start with, basically saying to go out of your way to get them. I have always had the best luck with not giving a shit. ^^

 

i'd give ya a hi 5 there lol, but theres one thing i wana point out.


you can only 'not give a shit' when everyone gives a damn about you.

if you are nobody, then no1 gives a shit whether you give a shit or not. I personally know some people that are stuck in this loop, and havn't realized that you gota make people care first before you drop on them

 

Good point! But one thing "Mystery" and alot of the get laid fast books fail to point out is that a large percengate of these girls in the club and bar scene are either with their boyfriends, not in the mood to pick up a dude there because shes already got afew no reserve or just wants attention.

I have afew male friends in that position and usually its not hard to get then hooked up the first time or two, but the single largest mistake they make is they just drop their lives and revolve around the girl. This is the single, worst mistake a guy can make.

And for guys who dont have all the luck with the girls, the friend zone can be used to his advangate. By this I mean, its not hard to trade emails with a cutie at the library or a coffee shop, basically expand your network immensely and sure, you will be known as the "Nice Guy" but theres gonna be this one girl, who has this one friend... you get the picture.

And one social attitude I tried to teach them is to take a different interest when meeting girls... come on guys pussy is always our first priority, but look at how gay men seem to have girls flock to them left and right, theres something to be learned there too. Is it because the girl knows its someting she cant have, or is he just not going outta his way to kiss her ass?