Here's the story... I've been with this girl for over 2 years now. She's nice and everything but, for the whole time we've been together, we never did 'it'. I respect her decision on wanting to wait after marriage. Another wierd thing is that, she's also doesn't show any interest at all when I tried to 'play' with her, meaning not even aroused.

Here's the question. What should I do. Is it normal for girls not interested in those activities? I just don't want to get married with her and later regret it and kill myself.

I've been with only 2 girls, and this is the 2nd. So for those of you with experience, chime in. I'm also looking for female responses. Thanks alot guys.

 

For a girl to not act interested is weird man. I know a few people who want to stay abstinent and will come really close to doing it but don't. If it were me, I would have dropped her a long time ago. Have you guys atleast done everything but?

A girl who isn't doing things like that after two years with you is either really uncomfortable with herself, or being with you or just plain weird.

I say be friends with her. There are plenty of awesome girls who get aroused

 

Yeah dude, we've done everything but I don't like the feeling of her being a robot...

 

she doesn't like you.

 

is she a diehard christian?

sex isn't everything in a relationship...but it sure as hell is awesome and makes it more romantic and you guys grow closer on another level. do you have plans on marrying her? if you do so, then just wait. If not, get out of it.

 

She either isn't into you, is scared, or is just "not into sex"

A lot of girls really just are not into it. I'm not going to say it won't get better, but it's a probability. If you stay with her, she'll probably be the type that never is that into sex, even if you were to get married.

Good luck - I bet you have a lot of pr0n saved on your computer

 

sorry dude.

 

Here's the score as Unkie 8D sees it:

1. According to your profile, you're 22. If she is anywhere near your age, she'd have put out.

2. If she's ultra religious. Cool. But it's only cool if you're of the same faith. Otherwise, she's using her tater as a carrot. I hope you're above that, one way or the other.

3. You're 22, what the F are you doing with a girlfriend? You don't know what you're doing exactly for a career. If you you DO know what you're doing career-wise, you know you've got to pay some serious dues before you get to the place in your life to have serious girlfriend. . . SO, what the F are you doing with a girlfriend again?

4. Women like attention and sex. Guess what she's getting from you RIGHT NOW? Guess what she's getting from someone else RIGHT NOW?

 

VIRGIN!!! Dude, break up with her, send her my way, and Ill give her back when I have no use for her anymore.

Damn, I wouldnt respect shit, you gave her two years, try using the "if you love me" line. works everytime.

How old is she? she has to be old, becouse young girls fall in love quik, I mean QUIK!

 

lol at D-style. u must have blue balls the size of a swiss ball brother. im surprised u havent cracked yet and visited a hooker.

she is playing u for a fool. wise up and move on, ur young, dont be dragged down just yet