Tried that, she didn't like it. she felt wierd and 'ticklish'... when i tried inserting the finger, she quickly hold my hand to stop it. faster than speeding bullet.

Did the oral too, she didn't like it either. same thing, 'ticklish'.

BTW, I know what i was doing. I did those with my first...

 

You're not going to change her at all. I doubt it's molestation like people have mentioned. I doubt she's lesbian either. She is just one of those girls that really DON'T give a shit about sex.

I've encountered the same ones. They're cute, they flirt, they want to 'kiss' but when you play with their vag they freak out and say it tickles. It's because they are not sexual. They are not sexual and they don't think about you that way. I know you care about her, and it's going to be tough leaving, but if you don't do anything you're just going to keep getting frustrated and it's probably not going to get better.

Masturbation gets old - the rest of us are having sex with lots of hot girls - and you should be too. No, sex isn't the most important thing in a relationship, but if it's important to just ONE of the people, than it's an important aspect of said relationship. Obviously, it's important to you. Either she'd at least let you TRY, or she'd care about you enough to get into it herself. She is being somewhat selfish in a way.

It's time for a long talk. Maybe have a beer or two beforehand so you're inhibitions are lowered (don't overdo it and seem like a horny drunk loser) and have her talk to you about it. Ask her

"are you attracted to me?" "I haven't mentioned this much, but I think about you a lot, I love you and I am just so frustrated. I want to share my life with you and be with you, and basically, well, I want to make love to you. It's killing me that you don't like me enough to even try - I feel unimportant, used, etc. What's going on? Where do you see our relationship going?"

Be direct. Keep eye contact. Be serious, make her talk about it. Dude, it's been TWO YEARS. Something has to give. You're at the point where you progress further, or find other paths in life.

I hope this helps, and good luck to you.

Justin

 

ya, even a die hard christian would eventually give in...sounds like she's not attracted to u.

 

I only see 3 rational possibilities here:
1: She has some sort of issue (psychological, religious, traumatic,etc)
2: She just really isn't into sex (yes they do exist)
3: She isn't into you (or your game) and may be getting it somewhere else

You have known her long enough now to be able to pony up and ask the tough question: WTF? (not in those words though). Ask her what the issue really is. If she gives a straight response, decide if it is something that you want to deal with or not. If she doesn't, she isn't the girl for you and you need to move on.

Be warned in advance: If you break up with her over this she is going to retaliate with psychological warfare and tell you anything she can to mess with your head (I've been cheating with someone better, you aren't any good, your penis is too small, etc). Some of it may be true, most of it won't. In the end, it doesn't really matter.

Take 2 tablets of Fukitol, put the top down on your S, go out and find someone to relieve some of that pressure. Just remember, five 2's are as good as one 10. After a few drinks, they all look like 10's anyway.

 

LOL that one's going in the sig

 

^^ i like that quote too...

 

People have different sex drives. Some like it often, some less often. If she has a sex drive, fondling her should arouse her, even if she doesn't let the arousal lead to sex. Some women find touching more arousing than kissing. If you cannot arouse her trying different styles, she may not have a sex drive. Most married couples need sex to keep the union strong and happy. You might want to stop trying to make this a romantic relationship and move onto another woman. Good luck