Today I get bitched out by this girl I know Jana. She told me I need to quit lying and talking about her friend, heather, and that heather and I were never gfbf.

Let me give you some background on this. Heather and I went out on 2 dates. On the 2nd date I asked her if we could be bf/gf and she said yes. Shortly after that, Heather quit returning my calls and promised to call me, see me, make plans to go out, etc...but then she would always make up some nonsense and not call with basically no explination. Then she says she didn't call me because she likes me, and whenever she likes a guy she always ends up getting hurt, and she didn't think I liked her (even though I asked ehr to be my bf/gf and when we went out I told her I liked her....I thought you only do that kind of stuff when you like a girl )

So anyway, Jana bitches me out today saying I need to quit telling people that we were bf/gf. She said that Heather told her we were never bf/gf. So I tried to set her straight and she said that Heather was a good friend of hers and I was not, so she was going to believe heather over me.

So in short...why do women have to be so dumb and lie just to make themselves look better? Obviously heather and I were bf/gf cause I asked her to be and she said yes, even though I broke up with her a few days later for never returning my calls and breaking her promises to call me. So we were bf/gf, even if it was only for a few days.

As already stated, Jana said I need to quit lying. I didn't say this, but I thought to myself, if I wanted to lie about having a gf, I could of found someone much better then Heather to lie about. I'm not trying to sound like a snob, but I am 23 and own my own house, have a 8-5 job with the state government, and own an S2000. I've done pretty well for myself. On the other hand, Heather is 23 and still lives at home or at Jana's most weekends. Heather was a bartender at Olive Garden but recently quit cause she wasn't getting enough hours. I never really did ask Heather about her education, but I get the feeling she only had a high school diploma, where as I went to a university. Heather's car is a monte carlo with a broken windshield cause during a storm a tree she was parked under had a branch fall from it and broke her windshield, and she doesn't have the money to get a new windshield so she drives her car around with a huge ass crack in it that looks like a rock was thrown on it.

If you want to know about Jana's background, she's 20 and babysits her 2 nieces cause her sister works. Jana only has a highschool diploma, has no job, and has no inclination to get a job, and would rather chat online all day. Jana has a new guy-friend each week (I know this because I have talked to some of her ex's and she honestly has a new date for each weekend) and that she has slept with 9 guys as of 2 months ago (so the number is probably higher now).

So why do women have to be so stupid and such liars? I didnt' do anything wrong here, and heather goes and lies to one of her good friends for whtever reason. I thought I was a good catch....obviously not

 

didn't read it all, but I got the idea. She is a game playing mind games type bitch and deserves to be abandoned.

I know the type and stay away

She is probably trying to manipulate you into an angry fit that will result in a profitable lawsuit for herself.

My brilliant ex-girlfriend used to hold seminars on how to sue men. I extracted all the pertinent info out of her when we had sex and I know all the details.

And I left her flat and high and dry

I have means to identify these rotten bitches and always stay ahead of them

 

first of all, girls will always stick up for each...even if they have to lie (btw, i'm not like that). anyway, in truth...you and heather were never "bfgf." you two only went on 2 dates and you asked her to be "bfgf" and then, never hear from her again. maybe she had a change of heart and didn't know how to tell you.....i dunno. or maybe she figured she'd let jana do her dirty work for her.

all in all....you deserve better. it sounds like heather wasn't even your type. they both have a lot of growing up to do.

there are plenty of other catches.

 

not like that, huh, bond? You sound like the same as the rest of the cougars I have had mucho bad experience with, you are obviously so familiar

How many lawsuits have you had against we Men?

We want to know

 

i'm really not like that. if i have a guy prob, he and i work it out together. i'm an honest person. if i'm gonna tell my friends about how a jerk he is or how wonderful he is...i'll them the whole story. there is always two sides to a story and two point of views...

i'm friends with almost all of my ex's. with the exception of one that i went on a "blind date" with. total loser. my co-workers will back me up.

 

girls suck

forget both those clowns and go find yourself a low maintenance gal who appreciates who you are and whom you have fun with in any situation.

 

[QUOTE]Originally posted by FormerH22a4
[B]girls suck

 

bondgurl, true, the end goal is ultimate happiness; however, for a good percentage of the girls money, career, home, car, somehow enters the equation.

 

i would guess it's about stability, not so much the money.

 

Bwahh you guys have like easy girl problems, come back when your girlfriend who you have know since you were 13 tell your parents and friends she is pregnent.

Now here's the kicker with some ones elses kid, which she had before we started dating, then has a miscarriage and then drops you for not supporting her decision.

If stabilitys the goal then most girls are way on the wrong foot. (Sorry about that silly rant, I am not bitter really I'm not.)