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Originally Posted by rubyrashel,Jan 15 2007, 12:59 PM
omg, girls have it easy my ass. I can not even explain the crap that I have gone through in the past year of being single. And its just getting worse. Go to the local starbucks and say "Hi" to who? The fatty sitting by himself who hasnt taken a shower in two weeks? MOst guys who are relatively attractive have significant others. And unfotunately, like YOU (men), I can put a dick (hypothetical) in some chick and go on about my life the next day. Unfortunately I have to give a shit, not that I want to, about the person. OR feel like shiit the next week for feeling like a whore and having a one night stand. WHY? Because every god damn person you meet...they only want to ####k you. Think it isn't true. I have actually gone ON DATES with guys that have actually told me this. "well Im just looking for a friend to have a good time with" and then when i ditch them (not without making me pay the bill bc they "forgot" their wallet) they mention how the COULD HAVE HAD SEX WITH ME IF THEY REALLY WANTED TO. OMFG How important do you feel now?
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Originally Posted by gotrice02,Jan 15 2007, 02:15 PM
You're right in assuming that sex is the most important thing for guys, because it is...we are built that way. When you meet a "good" guy that treats you the way you want, he will still be thinking about sex 95% of the time. At least the dooshes that you go out with are up front about it so you can move on. Men in the 19-24 year old range are probably not relationship minded and due to the character quality of the women these days, most men, in general, do not like to waste time on a relationship because it is such a fuking pain in the ass.
- on a side note, is one of those asses in zdave87's signature pic yours?
- on a side note, is one of those asses in zdave87's signature pic yours?
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Originally Posted by rubyrashel,Jan 15 2007, 02:34 PM
no, they look like the girls from NY area. I know the chick with the S tattooed on her is from up there. I have a pic of me somewhere on these forums, post your mugs thread. Im not on my comp so thats the only pic i got.
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Originally Posted by rubyrashel,Jan 15 2007, 01:59 PM
omg, girls have it easy my ass. I can not even explain the crap that I have gone through in the past year of being single. And its just getting worse. Go to the local starbucks and say "Hi" to who? The fatty sitting by himself who hasnt taken a shower in two weeks? MOst guys who are relatively attractive have significant others. And unfotunately, like YOU (men), I can put a dick (hypothetical) in some chick and go on about my life the next day. Unfortunately I have to give a shit, not that I want to, about the person. OR feel like shiit the next week for feeling like a whore and having a one night stand. WHY? Because every god damn person you meet...they only want to ####k you. Think it isn't true. I have actually gone ON DATES with guys that have actually told me this. "well Im just looking for a friend to have a good time with" and then when i ditch them (not without making me pay the bill bc they "forgot" their wallet) they mention how the COULD HAVE HAD SEX WITH ME IF THEY REALLY WANTED TO. OMFG How important do you feel now?
you'd be surprised how many women are "ok" with one-night stands....
though the sexual revolution has come and gone, "good" sex is becoming more and more important to women.
they don't necessarily want sex to be part of the relationship, but rather to help form the relationship.
i meet A LOT of single women in my business....they are very open with what they want in a relationship and sexual compatibility, to many, is crucial.
and to respond to your starbucks example, many women look in the wrong places for the right guy.
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Originally Posted by PLYRS 3,Jan 15 2007, 02:44 PM
ruby,
you'd be surprised how many women are "ok" with one-night stands....
though the sexual revolution has come and gone, "good" sex is becoming more and more important to women.
they don't necessarily want sex to be part of the relationship, but rather to help form the relationship.
i meet A LOT of single women in my business....they are very open with what they want in a relationship and sexual compatibility, to many, is crucial.
and to respond to your starbucks example, many women look in the wrong places for the right guy.
you'd be surprised how many women are "ok" with one-night stands....
though the sexual revolution has come and gone, "good" sex is becoming more and more important to women.
they don't necessarily want sex to be part of the relationship, but rather to help form the relationship.
i meet A LOT of single women in my business....they are very open with what they want in a relationship and sexual compatibility, to many, is crucial.
and to respond to your starbucks example, many women look in the wrong places for the right guy.
right
when im 40 and single, fuuuck ya i will be doing the one night stand thing. AT that point, who gives a shiit.
and where do i find a right guy? church? im not big on religion, school? been going for years and have not been impressed. bars, clubs? i dont think so.
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Originally Posted by rubyrashel,Jan 15 2007, 03:18 PM
when im 40 and single, fuuuck ya i will be doing the one night stand thing. AT that point, who gives a shiit.
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Originally Posted by gotrice02,Jan 15 2007, 03:33 PM
lol, most likely someone will come along when you arent expecting it or not looking for it.
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Originally Posted by rubyrashel,Jan 15 2007, 03:35 PM
at that point i wont care, IF im single when im 40, im past my time to have a kid. Ill probably be mad at the world.