8? I only see 4.

 

There's 5 pages.

 

not really, I am just talking, based on experience...Never really got "worked" by a chick, but I've had crappy breakups, who hasn't? Maybe my methods wont work for others, nothing is guaranteed.

 

exacto

 

Can anyone summarize this thread? Has any girl agreed to "help" the heartbroken kid out?

 

I hear ya bro, being out of the game is a problem for us bros while its non existant problem for girls. We settle with a girl and most times a mans social connections will diminish due to a rediculous amount of time being spent with her. For girls, a hook up is as simple as going to the local starbucks and saying "HI", well for a man, no so easy. lol. Too early to be gettin too hung up over a gal but I hear ya, its hard. Join a local gym, spend more time with your friends, attend some local community charity events, those will give you exposure to new people and most likely a new flame. Try to spend more selfish time (things you like to do) and if and when you run into a girl that digs the same things, selfish time becomes quality time. Best girl advice i ever recieved was from a wise man named Jay-Z "I got 99 problems but a bitch aint one"

 

Yeah, girls have it easy.

LOL @ at the Jay-Z comment.

 

If you're still sweatin' this chick go get a fifth of Jack Daniels and watch Swingers over and over again until your eyes burn. You feel much better when you come to.

 

omg, girls have it easy my ass. I can not even explain the crap that I have gone through in the past year of being single. And its just getting worse. Go to the local starbucks and say "Hi" to who? The fatty sitting by himself who hasnt taken a shower in two weeks? MOst guys who are relatively attractive have significant others. And unfotunately, like YOU (men), I can put a dick (hypothetical) in some chick and go on about my life the next day. Unfortunately I have to give a shit, not that I want to, about the person. OR feel like shiit the next week for feeling like a whore and having a one night stand. WHY? Because every god damn person you meet...they only want to ####k you. Think it isn't true. I have actually gone ON DATES with guys that have actually told me this. "well Im just looking for a friend to have a good time with" and then when i ditch them (not without making me pay the bill bc they "forgot" their wallet) they mention how the COULD HAVE HAD SEX WITH ME IF THEY REALLY WANTED TO. OMFG How important do you feel now?

 

You're right in assuming that sex is the most important thing for guys, because it is...we are built that way. When you meet a "good" guy that treats you the way you want, he will still be thinking about sex 95% of the time. At least the dooshes that you go out with are up front about it so you can move on. Men in the 19-24 year old range are probably not relationship minded and due to the character quality of the women these days, most men, in general, do not like to waste time on a relationship because it is such a fuking pain in the ass.

- on a side note, is one of those asses in zdave87's signature pic yours?